I suffered from various forms of abuse since a young age, and now I have managed to get completely away from the situations I was in. (I don't really want to go into detail so sorry it sounds really vague) Iv never actually talked about my past with anyone.
But I struggle with forming relationships with people friends or other. I have a complete lack of trust of people and scared of having intimate relationships with people.
I end up finishing it with boyfriends when things start to be getting serious or when i start to feel comfortable with them which is often only 1/2 months into the relationship, first of all because Im scared of what I might tell them about my past and scare them off, but I also think some of it has to do with the abuse I suffered but Im not sure.
I often feel confused and scared about developing feelings for people for fear of getting hurt.
I find myself very disconnected to my emotions and my feelings for other people and often very alienated as other people don't understand the turmoil going through my head when Im in a relationship or even when Im single.
the worst thing I feel is that Im unable to speak with ANYONE about my past and its become that Im considered a very secretive person even with things unrelated to my past.
Basically I think the reason I wrote this is to see if this is a 'normal' kind of response to childhood abuse?
And if anyone has any similar reactions to relationships I would love to hear from you.