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#21
(Original post by Cool_JordH)
What does he ejaculate off when his alone? His thoughts or does he watch pornography?
For me, when I'm with a guy I find it hard to *** without pornography because I'm just so used to cumming from porn. But when when I'm masturbating without porn it's harder to visualise.
Maybe try watching porn whilst having sex? Don't know how unethical this is whilst being in a relationship but ya know, change it up a bit! Oh and I can't *** when someone's giving me head cause it just doesn't stimulate me enough! Maybe he's penis isn't that sensitive so he finds it harder? I could get sucked off for 20-40 mins and still not ejaculate simply because it doesn't do anything for me. But when I have oral sex I can ejaculate because of the feeling perhaps. It's because mouth oral doesn't release the hormones to make me ejaculate like other oral does.
Guys will just experience different sensations - whether it's the mouth, vagina or anus. They all give different sensations.
What does he ejaculate off when his alone? His thoughts or does he watch pornography?
For me, when I'm with a guy I find it hard to *** without pornography because I'm just so used to cumming from porn. But when when I'm masturbating without porn it's harder to visualise.
Maybe try watching porn whilst having sex? Don't know how unethical this is whilst being in a relationship but ya know, change it up a bit! Oh and I can't *** when someone's giving me head cause it just doesn't stimulate me enough! Maybe he's penis isn't that sensitive so he finds it harder? I could get sucked off for 20-40 mins and still not ejaculate simply because it doesn't do anything for me. But when I have oral sex I can ejaculate because of the feeling perhaps. It's because mouth oral doesn't release the hormones to make me ejaculate like other oral does.
Guys will just experience different sensations - whether it's the mouth, vagina or anus. They all give different sensations.
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#22
(Original post by tooosh)
It's not unethical to watch porn during sex when your partner doesn't mind or actually wants to do it. But it treats the symptoms rather than the cause which is sexual conditioning.
It's not unethical to watch porn during sex when your partner doesn't mind or actually wants to do it. But it treats the symptoms rather than the cause which is sexual conditioning.
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#23
(Original post by Cool_JordH)
Yes I know it's not but in the past I've read quite a few posts on here saying 'you shouldn't be watching porn if you're in a relationship' full-stop. I was taking the mick out of that aha.
Yes I know it's not but in the past I've read quite a few posts on here saying 'you shouldn't be watching porn if you're in a relationship' full-stop. I was taking the mick out of that aha.
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#25
II have exactly the same problem .I have to do it myself otherwise it can go on for a long time and I begin to loose interest.It is very frustrating for me.I do have four children by the way.
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#26
sounds like he has death grip. his body is used to a particular type of stimulation it's not an insult to you
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#27
I've found this tends to happen with guys when they're not into it, or not stimulated enough. Stimulated doesn't mean physically -- a lot of it is mental.
For instance, I dated one guy who always came real hard when he imagined me with someone else.
Another guy, it came down to the right words at the right moment.
SO perhaps talk to him and see what some of his fantasies are. If there's any you can verbally do in bed together, maybe try it and see what happens :-)
For instance, I dated one guy who always came real hard when he imagined me with someone else.
Another guy, it came down to the right words at the right moment.
SO perhaps talk to him and see what some of his fantasies are. If there's any you can verbally do in bed together, maybe try it and see what happens :-)
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