Girls, do you like caring guys?

As title, people tell me I'am a kind hearted person, always willing to help, polite and caring, I'am no push over and can stand my own ground, however do girls actually like a caring guy? Having read various things it seems girls like to be treated badly??? :confused:

I'am not talking about a one night stand but a relationship.

Reply 1

Anonymous #2

Girls like to be treated badly ?? :confused:

I cant speak for every girl, but I would definitely want my bf to take care of me, I think being caring is an extremely attractive trait in a man :smile:

Reply 2

danielleb22

We (as females) seem to have been created with something that makes us attracted to idiots... yet we crave men who are caring however don't change! Once the badboy thing has wore off we all go running to the hills to find someone who really cares x

Reply 3

PinkyQT

7

Women naturally like men who are: Providers and Protectors.
Being caring is a feminine trait.

Reply 4

Sloaney Pony

Most girls looking for a relationship probably will.

There are girls (just as there are guys) who prefer "bad," supposedly exciting members of the opposite sex - but you wouldn't want to be with them anyway.

Reply 5

dbarker5

I think it takes more than just one quality to attract you to someone, I wouldn't go for someone simply on the grounds that they are caring, I need to find them interesting, be able to talk to them, find them funny and attractive, and after all this them being caring is obviously a great plus. once I like someone I would prefer them to be caring then someone who treats me badly but I think that comes later on.

Reply 6

Looney Tunes

Original post by PinkyQT

Women naturally like men who are: Providers and Protectors.
Being caring is a feminine trait.

In order for a man to provide for, and protect a female, he must first in some form, care for her.

So no, being caring is not a feminine trait, what nonsense.

Reply 7

PinkyQT

7

Original post by Looney Tunes

In order for a man to provide for, and protect a female, he must first in some form, care for her.

So no, being caring is not a feminine trait, what nonsense.

Caring is a womanly trait, she cares for the child, the husband. It's seen as being friendly, bringing someone up when down.

Reply 8

lucine.B

11

Its a nice quality to have! But obviously you'll need other qualities like i dunno being able to make her laugh and what not. But its nice to have a caring man haha. It means you'll be good to her in her time of need.

Reply 9

Technetium

18

As long as you are not clingy then yeah.

Reply 10

This Honest

3

Original post by PinkyQT

Caring is a womanly trait, she cares for the child, the husband. It's seen as being friendly, bringing someone up when down.

More rubbish.

OP, girls like caring guys.

Reply 11

PinkyQT

7

Original post by This Honest

More rubbish.

OP, girls like caring guys.

Look up the word caring. Think... ''do i know many men like that''.
What you like is a protector which you could see as caring.

Reply 12

This Honest

3

Original post by PinkyQT

Look up the word caring. Think... ''do i know many men like that''.
What you like is a protector which you could see as caring.

I can't believe I'm gonna debate this but I'm bored

Yes I know many men like that.
Protecting caring bf-that's fine. Obviously a girl wants other qualities in a guy!

Reply 13

Sloaney Pony

Original post by Looney Tunes

In order for a man to provide for, and protect a female, he must first in some form, care for her.

So no, being caring is not a feminine trait, what nonsense.

This.

Reply 14

PinkyQT

7

Original post by This Honest

I can't believe I'm gonna debate this but I'm bored

Yes I know many men like that.
Protecting caring bf-that's fine. Obviously a girl wants other qualities in a guy!

Yeah, protecting caring bf would be fine but if he was just caring that would not be great, he will need to protect the girl. Girls need a protector which is why many go for men taller than them/bigger.

I guess some girls prefer feminine traits in a guy.

Reply 15

hollysarah

Yes, men who can't/won't show emotion & act all macho 24/7 do my head in. It's not unmasculine to actually care for people!

Reply 16

username1214455

21

I've always wanted a guy to treat me like a princess :colondollar:

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Reply 17

MissNix

13

Well obviously every wants someone who cares about them, isn't that a basic requirement for a relationship?(bare in mind people go into a relationship under the impression that someone cares for them, if they find out later that's not the case then that's a whole other situation, but people do go into relationships under that pre tense).

Mind you its not the ONLY requirement you need (but its a necessity.) Being a "kind hearted person, always willing to help, polite and caring" is just a description of a decent human being, so you're not going to "stand out" as it were with those qualities. Not saying you should stop being a decent human being because that wont help you at all) But realise that you may need to have more going for you.

I'm not sure where you're reading that girls like to be treated badly, but they don't. No one likes to be treated badly in a relationship.

(edited 11 years ago)

Reply 18

PinkyQT

7

Its true. Not my fault you're feminine.

Reply 19

hollysarah

Original post by PinkyQT

Its true. Not my fault you're feminine.

What even... :confused:

Girls, do you like caring guys?

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