Have you ever rejected or been rejected by someone dating wise?

title says it really

i have been rejected one by a girl , basically my mate asked this girl when i was about 10 for me ,she said no but i didnt want to go out with her anyway so it wasnt too bad , i dont know why he did it.

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Reply 1

Tiger Rag

Yes. He didn't want another LDR. Looking back, I do see his point. Not sure I wanted my first relationship as an LDR.

Reply 2

CherryCherryBoomBoom

Yes. Been rejected by loads of guys. I've also rejected some guys. I even rejected by current boyfriend at first, but very soon realised the errors of my ways, haha :biggrin:

Reply 3

alex193

Would have been better titled 'Have you ever not been rejected by someone dating-wise' in my case :frown:

Reply 4

kate113855

I've never been rejected, I liked one guy but I never really asked him out or whatever. He just knew I liked him but kinda ignored me. Being dumped hurts a whooole lot worse than rejection imo.

I've rejected a couple of people, one was a lesbian which was kinda awkward since I am straight but generally I find it really hard to say no to people so I agree to go out with them and then say it isn't working like two weeks later :frown:

I'm a bad person. It probably gets their hopes up :') but I feel sooooooo mean saying no to their face. Meep.

Reply 5

Alxndra

I've rejected people who liked me a few times. Never been rejected myself because I don't put myself out there and I've only ever admitted my feelings to someone if I was confident they felt the same. :tongue:

Reply 6

I love shopping

I've been rejected everytime I've shown an interest in a guy, except for one. I've never rejected anyone.

Reply 7

Spontogical

Yes. Her reasons were understandable though, trying to run before I could walk. And I think the circumstances were against me anyways, which is through no fault of her own. Would still like to be friends, though not sure if she feels the same.

Have I rejected someone before? Yes, two people - well three. Mostly during times when I clearly wasn't mature enough for a relationship - had to tell them straight away to prevent any upsets etc.

Reply 8

SirMasterKey

Original post by alex193

Would have been better titled 'Have you ever not been rejected by someone dating-wise' in my case :frown:

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

Once by a friend I foolishly waited a year to tell so I could see it coming. We stopped talking after that.

Reply 10

Spontogical

Original post by SirMasterKey

This

and the funniest thing about forever alones, is that they dont want to date eachother :lol:

Reply 11

Truflais

I was rejected by a guy I really liked when I was 15. He claimed he 'wasn't ready for a relationship' then started dating a friend of mine not long after. Memories. :moon:

Reply 12

georgelewiss

I've only ever asked one person out and she rejected me so 100% success rate! Never rejected anyone because no one has ever asked :/

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Reply 13

Tai Ga

Yeah. When I was about 7 :ahee:

Reply 14

Party55511

Rejection makes it sound like they have a choice :rolleyes:

Yeah, thankfully.

lol I don't think I'd actually feel capable of rejecting someone, not that I need to worry about that situation ever arising! And yes been rejected many times, painfully...remember being so hurt/angry I bit a chunk out of my German book once :colondollar:

Reply 17

CasualSoul

I've never had the opportunity to reject :rofl:

I've never been rejected but I've never asked :colondollar:

Reply 18

xaki90

Original post by eliza.anne

I was rejected by a guy I really liked when I was 15. He claimed he 'wasn't ready for a relationship' then started dating a friend of mine not long after. Memories. :moon:

Sorry this might sound a bit mean but that really made me laugh really hard. :smile:

Reply 19

IlexBlue

Never had the opportunity to reject or be rejected. The one guy I've ever had a crush on at the age of 15, I never approached and then I switched schools. :sigh:

I've been told I had a bit of an ice queen demeanour and never really got on much with people my own age, I wasn't one for enticing guys. I thought they were all grossly immature and they likely thought I was extremely stuck-up. :lol: