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I don't understand him...! :(

* He keeps staring at me and looks away when I catch him....
* I've heard from a couple of people that he thinks I'm good looking....
* He asked me if I look at his myspace everyday.....
* He asked me about my love life....
* He asked me who I like......(and I tell him it's him).........
* He gives me his number happily when I ask him for it....
* He says he'd like to get to know me......



...And then he tells me hes busy. :frown:

Reply 1

Maybe hes very shy, hes definately showing the key signs of being attracted to you, but i do get the feeling that hes not comfortable telling you how he feels or letting you find out more.

I think you need to be persistant with him, but if its really bugging you find someone else to think about.

Reply 2

x.Utopian.Dream.x
* He keeps staring at me and looks away when I catch him....
* I've heard from a couple of people that he thinks I'm good looking....
* He asked me if I look at his myspace everyday.....
* He asked me about my love life....
* He asked me who I like......(and I tell him it's him).........
* He gives me his number happily when I ask him for it....
* He says he'd like to get to know me......



...And then he tells me hes busy. :frown:


chicken, maybe he is =]
he obviously likes you :p:

Reply 3

x.Utopian.Dream.x
* He keeps staring at me and looks away when I catch him....
* I've heard from a couple of people that he thinks I'm good looking....
* He asked me if I look at his myspace everyday.....
* He asked me about my love life....
* He asked me who I like......(and I tell him it's him).........
* He gives me his number happily when I ask him for it....
* He says he'd like to get to know me......



...And then he tells me hes busy. :frown:



you didnt leave a bit of brocoli between your teeth did ya? : )




..



.... perhaps he really is just busy?

Reply 4

He can actually have a life and prior commitments.

Reply 5

x.Utopian.Dream.x
* He keeps staring at me and looks away when I catch him....
* I've heard from a couple of people that he thinks I'm good looking....
* He asked me if I look at his myspace everyday.....
* He asked me about my love life....
* He asked me who I like......(and I tell him it's him).........
* He gives me his number happily when I ask him for it....
* He says he'd like to get to know me......



...And then he tells me hes busy. :frown:

I am busy, my dear; I prioritise friends over people I know less.

Reply 6

Ooh men! They're funny

Reply 7

I feel bad taking the girl's side in this, but I will just this once.

The guy sounds intelligent - he told you he's busy, and it's made you think about him more, to the point of posting here. So it's obviously worked. Whatever you do, DON'T pursue him. You will come off as needy, clingy and annoying. If he's distant, you have to be distant too. If he really likes you, he will pursue. When he does, play hard to get. But show that your interest is there. Ignore this advice at your peril.

Reply 8

icedout
Whatever you do, DON'T pursue him. You will come off as needy, clingy and annoying.


If I may chime in, if you think it's a mind game, there's no point in pursuing a relationship unless you want one that starts off with convictions of insincerity and communication trouble. I'd say give him the benefit of the doubt. If no "jerk" flags have gone up yet, don't assume he's doing jerk things, yeah?

Best,
m

Reply 9

Thanks for the advice, anymore? xx

Reply 10

Timeslikethese
Ooh men! They're funny


Yup, we've all the qualities you'd like to have.

n/h

Reply 11

.ThatDope.
Yup, we've all the qualities you'd like to have.

n/h


Lol, well that made me laugh! Few men have such great qualities!

Reply 12

Timeslikethese
Lol, well that made me laugh! Few men have such great qualities!


I'm not just a pretty face... :wink:

Reply 13

.ThatDope.
I'm not just a pretty face... :wink:


It wasn't a compliment, but anyway!

Reply 14

No stalker. :rofl:

Reply 15

^^ foo'

Timeslikethese
It wasn't a compliment, but anyway!


If you say so... :redface:

Reply 16

It's June. Everyone between the ages of 16 and 21 should really be busy.

Reply 17


He needs to make more time, or use time multiple times.

Why not buy him a time turner? It worked for Hermione:
http://www.otherlandtoys.co.uk/harrytime800.jpg

Reply 18

How is that wierd?! So he's interested in you? Yes. But he's busy. That shouldn't be a problem for you should it? I'm sure he has other commitments, just try and figure out a suitable time. If he's always busy, then that's a little more strange but it appears that you are fussing over nothing.