Guys, when would you pay for a girl you were having lunch with?

Being the gentleman that I am, I always pay for the women's meal as they are persecuted enough in society because of their gender, and saving them a few of your English Pounds is the least I can do. I also pay for the taxi home Alas, mon ami, bitches love the respect.

I would never pay for a girl, that's despicable - you can't buy people, no matter what gender they are.


But seriously, I wouldn't pay for a friend unless they were significantly poorer than me.

I don't think I can be bought either, but I think it's a nice on occasion - it shows the guy to be generous.

Never. Strong independent women can easily pay for themselves

You misunderstand me - I was making a joke because 'paying for' is synonymous with 'buying' - if I said I'd paid for Sky-TV,you would assume I bought it.

Have you just met this guy? If you just met him and he paid for lunch, it sounds like a date.

I think strong men can show a little generosity without making judgement that a woman is weak. I wouldn't expect a guy to pay and offer to pay my half, but when they insist they pay, why should i begrudge them a good deed?

The entire tradition is antiquated. I'm certainly not going to offer to pay for someone's meal just because they happen to possess a vagina.

It makes both parties feel good, therefore imo it's not antiquated. No one ever suggested you did, just perhaps for someone with a vagina who you really liked. When I was 16 I used to refuse to let a guy pay on the premise that if we were ever going to get equal pay, then we should pay equally for things. But, having spoken to my exes - some guys really enjoy feeling like they can provide for their woman and I relaxed a bit , stopped feeling guilty and now enjoy it back.

The entire tradition is antiquated. I'm certainly not going to offer to pay for someone's meal just because they happen to possess a vagina.

Being the gentleman that I am, I always pay for the women's meal as they are persecuted enough in society because of their gender, and saving them a few of your English Pounds is the least I can do. I also pay for the taxi home Alas, mon ami, bitches love the respect.

When I am single, i'll pay for old time female friends/ female best friends out of courtesy or if they are paying by card (did this today), but also for the girl i'm into.
If i'm in a relationship, it stops. Unless it is clearly for a best friend as a sign of goodwill or faith).

If i'm interested in a girl, I will invite her, and her alone to do stuff with me(anything you can think of under the sun).
Well yes dinner, but things like walks/cinema's/daytrips any reason to spend time with her alone. (How you can tell its dating)
I'm also into old/unfashionable thinking myselfm with guys paying for ladies, I will always offer to pay even if she does have money or more money than me:s
LOL it's weird, I also say that I offer to pay only for girls I like/ am on a date with. I guess I flex it, without realising.

Oh and furthermore, some girls might like treating you back. Like with my last ex the unwritten agreement was that because he had more money then me, he'd treat me to dinner and I'd treat him to cheaper things like the cinema or coffee.