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jealous bf

grrrr this has well made me angry.

Right at the weekend i arranged to meet up with my ex to give him his shirt back. Yesterday the boyfriend texts us saying when you get in come on msn and then do i really need to see mark as he would like to see me tonight.

I thought then oh yeh your only sayign that as you dont want to me to see my ex.

Today i told him i know he said that to start an argument and he told me he did it to see if i care about him. He doesnt understand that i just wont suddenly ditch my friends whenj i made arrangements. grrr anyone think him doing this was unreasonable seeing as he knew i was going to be seeing my ex. grrr :mad:

Reply 1

BlackHawk

Why aren't you happy that he cares about you enough to be jealous? He isn't being spiteful at all, he's just worried that you're going to go and get together with your ex. Rather than starting an arguement with him, why don't you reassure him as he's obviously worried.

Reply 2

blondie_

as he gets jealous of everything and wants me to see him on fri night when he knows i go out with my friends. i ahve reassured him he just keeps going on. grrr

Reply 3

BlackHawk

Well how often do you make tme for just the two of you?

Reply 4

Audacious

have you spoken to him?

Reply 5

blondie_

yeah ive spoken to him about it and he just keeps going on about it. i said i wont get my with ex and he got to trust me which he said he did the other day. yet he's now saying hell go if i want. grrr. i see him a few times a week

Reply 6

blondie_

also i asked to meet todya which he keeps squirting around.

Reply 7

Audacious

Guys can be just as insecure as us girls,maybe he's just insecure?

Reply 8

blondie_

also he made a faceparty profile and preteneded to be someone else and messaged me, i didnt fall for it as i could tell it was him but why do something like that? he addmitted it i think i should get rid.

Reply 9

blondie_

yeah maybe buts it driving me crazy grrrr

Reply 10

BlackHawk

If it's driving you crazy then why are you with him? Life is too short to be unhappy.

Reply 11

Audacious

gotta go with blackhaw

Reply 12

blondie_

true his ways are irritating and i cannot stand the jealous obseeive behvaiour and the "you dont care about me" thrown at me in every argument.

Reply 13

BlackHawk

I think you've answered your own question there then.

Reply 14

Glory

my belief is that if someone keeps saying your doing one thing, eventually you will end up doing it and their paranoidia will be justified.

Reply 15

blondie_

lol i know im not going to get back with my ex boyfriend so he can say all he wants, ive had enough

Reply 16

Alewhey

littlemisssarah

lol i know im not going to get back with my ex boyfriend so he can say all he wants, ive had enough

On this forum you can guarantee that you suggest you are even slightly unhappy with a relationship, you will be bombarded by people saying you should end it.

Here is a thought: Why don't you talk to him about it? He isn't a mind-reader, he can't know that he is getting on your nerves. And I gotta tell you I'd be extremely jealous is my gf was hanging around with her ex, its only natural. Try and see it from his angle.

Having said that, if something like that could really drive you to break up with him then maybe he is on to something when he says "you dont care about me". Maybe you should drop him and let him find someone more sympathetic.

Reply 17

BlackHawk

No one told her to end it....just a point.

Reply 18

cinder

Then I'll make the point and say just end it. When a boyfriend annoys you to this extent the whats the point.

Reply 19

blondie_

i have spoken to him about alewhey ive tried to reassure him and tell him that he doesnt need to have the insecurites hes got. im not ebing unsmypathetic at all ive tried to see it from his point of view. the constant trying to start arguments he does is driving me to thinking about breaking up with him, which would be best the if hes making me unhappy.

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