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    2 weeks ago i stupidly had unprotected oral sex with an ex of mine. It only lasted a couple of seconds before i stopped. There was only a little bit of precum BUT i had a canker sore, which i heard is a passage for hiv into the bloodstream. Thing is i've no idea of his status. I had my annual sti screening 2 months ago and all was cleared. I dunno what to think he was abroad with work for 6 months and i know from past experiences with him that it is possible for him to be doing anything or with anyone.

    I dunno if it's regret or guilt or a mixture of both that has me worried. My past relationship was an abusive one and it took me a long time to get away and build my confidence slightly. I think that is where the trust issue is. I'm upset for my lapse in judgement and worried for what i might have exposed myself too. I have another 2 weeks before i can go and get sti checked and if its anything like the last 2 the wait is going to be hell.
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    You'll be fine, at least as far as HIV is concerned: no semen in the mouth = basically no risk.

    Even with semen in your mouth from someone who is HIV+, you're looking at less than one in a thousand chance of being infected, probably much less.
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    Have you tried asking him about his status or whether he's been having unprotected sex recently?
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    I asked when was he last tested and it was seven months ago and that came back all clear.... but thats a long time now
 
 
 
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