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    Ladies, If you knew that a guy you liked already was already in a relationship, would you accept it and stay away, e.g. if you worked with him?
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    It depends. Which makes me sound awful, I know. But if I felt that he reciprocated my feelings I'd tell him how I felt if I truly liked him, but leave any other decisions to him. He could walk away from his relationship if he wanted to but I wouldn't be the third person.


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    Yes of course. I wouldn't interfere with his relationship.
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    101 of relationships:

    A man who is wanted by many girls [especially cute ones] is very attractive to girls. A man in a relationships [ESPECIALLY with a good looking girl] will always have girls willing to sabotage his relationship.

    This is a fact.

    Girls are more willing to share a man of high status.
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    Yep.
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    (Original post by Ultimate1)
    101 of relationships:

    A man who is wanted by many girls [especially cute ones] is very attractive to girls. A man in a relationships [ESPECIALLY with a good looking girl] will always have girls willing to sabotage his relationship.

    This is a fact.

    Girls are more willing to share a man of high status.
    Dude you post that on like, every thread similar to this

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    Yes, I don't want to interrupt his relationship
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    Possibly. If it was clear that I had little chance of getting with him and that he wasn't into me, then yeah, I'd stay away as I wouldn't gain anything from trying. Otherwise no, I probably wouldn't.

    And I appreciate that I'm not a "lady", but I'm not sure why that matters. Surely guys can answer this just as well as girls?

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    101 of relationships:

    A man who is wanted by many girls [especially cute ones] is very attractive to girls. A man in a relationships [ESPECIALLY with a good looking girl] will always have girls willing to sabotage his relationship.

    This is a fact.

    Girls are more willing to share a man of high status.
    While true that a guy is more attractive if girls want him (and that doesn't mean they want to sabotage his relationship), the relevance to this thread is.....?
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    Yes. In any situation I'd stay away from somebody taken.
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    (Original post by shadowdweller)
    Dude you post that on like, every thread similar to this

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    HeHe.

    Don't think such a topic has ever come up though which has had the privilege of me posting on it.
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    Yes. I appreciate it may be hard to judge without being in the situation, but I wouldn't want to ruin someone else's relationship.
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    (Original post by Ultimate1)
    HeHe.

    Don't think such a topic has ever come up though which has had the privilege of me posting on it.
    Could have sworn I saw you post it somewhere else recently. My mistake

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      Anyone who wouldn't accept it should be ashamed of themselves. :erm:
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      (Original post by Ultimate1)
      101 of relationships:

      A man who is wanted by many girls [especially cute ones] is very attractive to girls. A man in a relationships [ESPECIALLY with a good looking girl] will always have girls willing to sabotage his relationship.

      This is a fact.

      Girls are more willing to share a man of high status.
      True!! So,so true!! I think it's hilarious!!

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      (Original post by Treeroy)

      While true that a guy is more attractive if girls want him (and that doesn't mean they want to sabotage his relationship), the relevance to this thread is.....?
      I didn't say all girls are willing to.

      I said ''girls are willing to sabotage'' didn't imply all are, but I think we can all accept that if a guy is in a relationship with a half decent looking girl his attraction increases ten fold in other girl's eyes.
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      True!! So,so true!! I think it's hilarious!!

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      Can't say I can blame girls for it though, if seen from their viewpoint. A man who has a cute girl is a universal sign of status.
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      (Original post by Ultimate1)
      I think we can all accept that if a guy is in a relationship with a half decent looking girl his attraction increases ten fold in other girl's eyes
      I think a number of people will agree that that's ridiculous

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      Yes, of course.
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      (Original post by shadowdweller)
      Dude you post that on like, every thread similar to this

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      To be fair, it is true that someone's sexual market value increases when they're seen with an attractive partner...
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      I've been there so many times, so yes, I would accept it and move on.
     
     
     
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