Well, not in my family, but in my gf's family.
I met my gf whilst at a sport club lunch. I get on with her sisters well enough, however one of them is divorced (has been for 10 years) and seems now to be on the hunt. thing is, i think it's me she wants.
it's essentially built up from small talk/in-law relations, and now i feel weird at family gatherings since she makes a beeline to speak to me and flirt. she doesn't overly flirt so my gf doesn't suspect, but i think she wants to date me.
the thing is, i admit she is pretty and not as my gf is. i know that may seem biased, but mr gf has long hair and her sis has short hair and i don't find short hair attractive. that said, i will never cheat on my gf, but i don't want to cause any friction in her family because of this. their mum died about a year ago, and their dad is sick so this is something not needed really.
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- 16-08-2013 18:59
- 17-08-2013 23:53
Avoid her as much as possible, when she talks to you keep the conversation short and formal so she doesn't have a chance to get close to you.
That said, are you sure she's not just trying to be friendly and get to know you, as you are a big part of her sister's life?
- 18-08-2013 00:07
She might just be being friendly? I would carry on with things as normal for now, and if she seems to be getting very interested in you then your suspicions may have been confirmed! In this case a confrontation might not be a good idea, but I would suggest talking to your gf about it. Be sure that she is not just being friendly though, as this could cause an argument. I would wait a bit and see what feels right x