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    Well, not in my family, but in my gf's family.

    I met my gf whilst at a sport club lunch. I get on with her sisters well enough, however one of them is divorced (has been for 10 years) and seems now to be on the hunt. thing is, i think it's me she wants.

    it's essentially built up from small talk/in-law relations, and now i feel weird at family gatherings since she makes a beeline to speak to me and flirt. she doesn't overly flirt so my gf doesn't suspect, but i think she wants to date me.

    the thing is, i admit she is pretty and not as my gf is. i know that may seem biased, but mr gf has long hair and her sis has short hair and i don't find short hair attractive. that said, i will never cheat on my gf, but i don't want to cause any friction in her family because of this. their mum died about a year ago, and their dad is sick so this is something not needed really.

    Avoid her as much as possible, when she talks to you keep the conversation short and formal so she doesn't have a chance to get close to you.
    That said, are you sure she's not just trying to be friendly and get to know you, as you are a big part of her sister's life?

    She might just be being friendly? I would carry on with things as normal for now, and if she seems to be getting very interested in you then your suspicions may have been confirmed! In this case a confrontation might not be a good idea, but I would suggest talking to your gf about it. Be sure that she is not just being friendly though, as this could cause an argument. I would wait a bit and see what feels right x
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