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    Basically, my sister is always calling me ugly. It's kind of lost meaning as she says it so much but my self esteem has taken a hit over it, and I think it's affected how confident I am around other people, and especially girls.

    A few people have called me good looking, but mostly my family so that doesn't really prove much to me lol. I've only had two girlfriends and I'm 19. I've always been pretty introvert, and I've only recently tried to change that, I've always put down my lack of success with girls as to me simply not putting myself out there.

    I'm 6 ft 3 and have a slim/athletic, but I'd just like to know your thoughts on my face. Also, my hair has to be long ish as I have huge ears Lol.

    PM me if you'd be cool with letting me know your feelings and I'll send you a couple of pics, I'd appreciate your thoughts, either way.
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    (Original post by SteveBlade)
    I've had two girlfriends and I'm 19
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    my lack of success with girls
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    Two girlfriends at the age of 19 is more than most people manage! Don't put yourself down so much, you're doing much better than a lot of other people.

    PM me your picture and I'll be blunt. If you're ugly, I will say so.
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    PM me,
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    Pm me, handsome :flutter:
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    Pm me I'll be very honest
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    you are ugly
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    Go for it.
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    Post a photo in original post if you got balls, OP
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    I'm ready for ya OP
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    He is average, not ugly.
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    PM me
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    Sure, go ahead!
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    Thanks for the thoughts.

    Just so I'm not getting confused with all the PM'ing.

    Mixed opinions about the hair, but I'm always experimenting with that. :>

    A couple of people wanted to see a full body pic? Do you mean with a top on or just me stood up? :P
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    I'll leave the body pic out I think, I've got an okay body but still a little on the skinny side. Someone suggested putting on a little bit of weight and that's exactly what I've been trying to do for a month or so, hopefully I'll see results soon.

    I'm 6 ft 3 and 12 stone. I don't think I'm too skinny, but still I'm trying to put on a bit. I got a few 6.5 ratings for my face but only one person liked my hair lol, I do change it around a lot and perhaps you might think the style I had the day after was okay, every morning it turns out different :P. I'm just thankful that no one thought I was outright ugly, you don't know how good the words "okay", "cute", "not bad" etc mean, even if they aren't super compliments lol. My sisters words will mean even less now. ^_^ Perhaps the height could put an extra point on my overall as well haha, I've seen the tall thing hyped up to heaven on here :L.

    Thanks guys.
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    Screw what your sister has to say. She should be supportive to you and help you with girl problems and stuff like that. I'm sure you're not ugly at all xx
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    PM me if you like =D Honestly, I think it's important not to put too much focus on appearance. I've found that people go for different looks and different body types, and although I don't deny that physical attraction is important in relationships, myself (and many other people) don't place it's importance all that highly when looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend! I think the only major concern people should have with their physical appearance is, weather or not you have a healthy body weight and weather or not you practice good hygiene.
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    Sisters and bothers are often quite mean to each other - I wouldn't really listen to her. PM me if you want
 
 
 
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