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    So my girlfriend uses Twitter and Facebook & other sites heavily. I only go on Facebook just to keep in contact with people now and again, but she spends a lot of her day just on these websites whether that's on her phone, or laptop.

    Now I know that the majority of young people nowadays have accounts on social media websites and we aren't a exception. However I really feel like it is affecting our relationship, in a bad way. She talks about me a lot in her statuses and tweets which is nice, however I'm not sure she knows when to stop. A lot of the time when we are together her eyes are glued to her phone, and before we eat food she has to take a picture of it almost everytime to show her couple hundred followers on Instagram, stuff like that.
    She has ask.fm, and a lot of people send hostile anonymous messages to her which is horrible to read, but still she wants to have it.

    Her accounts aren't exactly private so anyone can view these pictures and statuses of exactly where we are and what we are doing. That's probably me being paranoid lol, but she said she wants everyone to see our dates and things. But really, sometimes I feel like she is in love with social media, not me. I haven't brought this up really because I'm anxious as to how she will react. It's like everything isn't private anymore.

    I'm probably making a too big a deal out of this haha, but how has Social Media affected your Relationships? In a good or bad way?
 
 
 
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