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    Whenever I am out with my friends I always see attractive guys but im too shy to approach them. I was wondering if there are any techniques I could use to get their attention?!
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    Where low cut clothes, get super drunk, shout, scream, flaunt your ass and tits.
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    Talk to them.
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    Cleavage. Or as the user below me suggested - smile. Let them know you're interested, if you're avoiding eye contact they'll assume you're not interested.

    If that fails, talk to them.
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    Flash a smile and make eye contact, maybe flick your hair or something. That usually clues up senseless males such as myself.
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    IOIs, such as submissive eye contact, smiling/giggling, playing with your hair, drawing attention to your mouth, looking at a guy's mouth, kino (touching, often the arm, or chest), dancing deliberately near/with a guy..
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    (Original post by Vonlenska)
    Where low cut clothes, get super drunk, shout, scream, flaunt your ass and tits.
    Shout and scream lol, In all seriousness though this will most likely work
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    IOI
    What's an IOI?
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    (Original post by Vonlenska)
    Where low cut clothes, get super drunk, shout, scream, flaunt your ass and tits.
    You forgot face paint. Wear face paint as well. I think it's called makeup or something, but you have to apply layers and layers of it to get the right sort of effect.
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    (Original post by VeniViciVidi)
    What's an IOI?
    Indication Of Interest
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Indication Of Interest
    Why couldn't you have said that the first time?
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    Ok I don't recommend this but... wear little clothing
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    (Original post by VeniViciVidi)
    Why couldn't you have said that the first time?
    Beats me
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    My tried and tested, fail safe method is eye contact. Catch their eye for a little longer than you usually would, then look away. Do it a couple of times and maybe smile as well. Before you know it they'll be walking over to you.
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    Three words:
    Push up bra.
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    I get nervous too most of the time. Sometimes I just give up because I'm too awkward to think of something to say :P
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    (Original post by Caits7)
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    Push up bra.
    To be honest, nice underwear is just generally a good idea. Not even just for going out, it's a massive help in exams.

    This makes it sound like I used less that legit means to pass my exams :lol: I didn't, it's just very comforting knowing that even if the exam goes terribly, your underwear is awesome.
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    (Original post by aspirinpharmacist)
    To be honest, nice underwear is just generally a good idea. Not even just for going out, it's a massive help in exams.

    This makes it sound like I used less that legit means to pass my exams :lol: I didn't, it's just very comforting knowing that even if the exam goes terribly, your underwear is awesome.
    Totally agree.
    I mean, when everything is falling apart around you, always good to know you have some nice underwear on ^_^
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    (Original post by lilywilliams)
    Whenever I am out with my friends I always see attractive guys but im too shy to approach them. I was wondering if there are any techniques I could use to get their attention?!
    Do NOT do the slutty things that others have been saying. Girls that show too much generally are passed up by classy guys and are taken by people who just want to get into your pants.
    Of course if that's all you want, then by all means. But if you really want to get their attention, dress smart and try to go with as few girls as possible. You on your own at a bar will give you greater success than if you're with a bunch of your friends, because guys can get intimidated with groups of girls if they're singling out one.
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    Turn up dressed as a canary. That would certainly get the attention of most guys I know
 
 
 
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