Feeling so down

I am feeling so down and I feel pathetic. I have no idea what I want out of life, I don't know if I want to go to uni. I really like this guy who I met through a friend about a year ago and we almost got together at one point a few months back after going out a few times and flirting for ages and then he changes his mind and I still havent got over him, I even tried it on with him last night and he rejected me. I feel so humiliated and crap. I want to cry all the time. I want to text this guy but after him rejecting me and saying he just wants to be friends now it would be stupid of me to do so. I already did last night saying that I wouldnt embaress myself like that again and i shouldnt bother. I dont like anyone else. Work is so crap, my manager is treating me like a mug, getting me to do so much work. I just want the ground to swallow me up. Everything is going wrong :frown:

Reply 1

naivesincerity

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Have you thought about counselling? They might be able to offer constructive help

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Anonymous #2

Anonymous

I am feeling so down and I feel pathetic. I have no idea what I want out of life, I don't know if I want to go to uni. I really like this guy who I met through a friend about a year ago and we almost got together at one point a few months back after going out a few times and flirting for ages and then he changes his mind and I still havent got over him, I even tried it on with him last night and he rejected me. I feel so humiliated and crap. I want to cry all the time. I want to text this guy but after him rejecting me and saying he just wants to be friends now it would be stupid of me to do so. I already did last night saying that I wouldnt embaress myself like that again and i shouldnt bother. I dont like anyone else. Work is so crap, my manager is treating me like a mug, getting me to do so much work. I just want the ground to swallow me up. Everything is going wrong :frown:

This is not meant to sound unsympathetic but it properly will……
Look around you at everything positive, look for the small things in life that make you happy.
Relatively speaking you will see your life is not *that* terrible. This may sound harsh but I am speaking from a position where my life has just changed forever and its because of something a lot worse than some boy rejecting me.
So in all honesty try and find happiness and be grateful for what you have, or if you really are truly depressed a doctor or councillor may be able to help you.

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Big Fat Mel

Anonymous

I am feeling so down and I feel pathetic. I have no idea what I want out of life, I don't know if I want to go to uni. I really like this guy who I met through a friend about a year ago and we almost got together at one point a few months back after going out a few times and flirting for ages and then he changes his mind and I still havent got over him, I even tried it on with him last night and he rejected me. I feel so humiliated and crap. I want to cry all the time. I want to text this guy but after him rejecting me and saying he just wants to be friends now it would be stupid of me to do so. I already did last night saying that I wouldnt embaress myself like that again and i shouldnt bother. I dont like anyone else. Work is so crap, my manager is treating me like a mug, getting me to do so much work. I just want the ground to swallow me up. Everything is going wrong :frown:

It sounds to me like you didn't really get anywhere with him to begin with. What he thinks about your relationship, therefore, might be different from your interpretation. He doesn't sound entirely sympatheric to your plight but, don't worry. If embarrassment and boy troubles are your main concerns I wouldn't worry about anything too much. Life doesn't have to be taken seriously; you will no longer be working for your manager soon; you don't have to have a boyfriend and you can at least see what Uni is going to be like. Chin up.

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