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    Should an adult couple hold back on moving in together simply because of their age? What if they've been together years, are mature for their age and financially stable and feel like living together is right for them, but they're only 18/19/20, for example? Should fears relating to this, such as the reaction of their parents, stop a young couple from making the move? All opinions appreciated
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    It's up to them. If they are mature enough, financially stable and in a stable relationship, why not.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Should an adult couple hold back on moving in together simply because of their age? What if they've been together years, are mature for their age and financially stable and feel like living together is right for them, but they're only 18/19/20, for example? Should fears relating to this, such as the reaction of their parents, stop a young couple from making the move? All opinions appreciated
    To be honest, I would be concerned if a friend moved in with someone that young, as I'd be worried they were tying themselves down so soon. Saying that, you should do what feels right for you as a couple, so if you want to go for it then go for it; don't think of society's opinion: do what makes you feel happy.
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    yes.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Should an adult couple hold back on moving in together simply because of their age? What if they've been together years, are mature for their age and financially stable and feel like living together is right for them, but they're only 18/19/20, for example? Should fears relating to this, such as the reaction of their parents, stop a young couple from making the move? All opinions appreciated
    2 of my friends moved in together when they were 19. 7 years later they are now married. It definitely can work.

    That being said I have seen it go all kinds of wrong more often than it works out with other young couples I know.
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    Do what feels right + seems sensible but try to avoid burning your bridges with your families
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    My friend is 20 and has lived together with her boyfriend since 17, and moved half way round the world together... It might not always be plain sailing, but it can work out well.
 
 
 
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