Horny 17 year old - HELP!

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Hey!
I have recently turned 17, and I am constantly horny. I mean, I feel like my hormones are going wild! I am male, and I don't really know what my sexuality is. I just feel physically attracted to both genders. I guess that is bisexual. The weird thing is though, I haven't been in a relationship with a guy before, just girls.
Anyway, besides the point!
I don't really want to watch pornography, because I just feel guilty and weird when I do. I think that porn gives this false idea about how sex is really like!

Another thing that makes me laugh when I think about it is that I am not a fan of masturbating! I hear it is really good, but I just can't be bothered to 'fap' off for a while. Hahaa.

I know it seems like I am a lost cause now, but it is really frustrating. sexually frustrating! Sometimes, I am literally so bored, that I go onto Omegle, and flirt with strangers just to get that sexual thrill (not expecting to get anything out of it).

ahhhhhhhhh :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:
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Anonymous #2
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Just masturbate. Honestly, give it a go when you're home alone or something. Think of some sexual fantasy and just go with it, honestly, you'll feel much, much better. I personally dislike pornography as well after trying it, but masturbation will let you release all those pent up emotions and send a huge amount of endorphins through you.
It's completely healthy and you'll get your head straight. I used to get so frustrated I would feel urges just to kiss someone, ANYONE, regardless of gender or looks or personality. You'll feel more comfortable in your sexuality once you let it all out.
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Just go for it. 'Discover your sexuality' or whatever, haha.
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(Original post by BoshBosh)
No sex before marriage!!

He can only like women
Why and why?
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Just go for it. 'Discover your sexuality' or whatever, haha.
the question is.. how? lool :P

Me and my virgin friends keep saying that we just want to lose our virginity. She is unable to lose is because of certain factors in her culture. Me, I just don't know if I am ready, even though I want to.

Masturbating takes literally soooo long! I live at home, with my parents + brother! What if they walk it?!?!!??!?
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Hey!
I have recently turned 17, and I am constantly horny. I mean, I feel like my hormones are going wild! I am male, and I don't really know what my sexuality is. I just feel physically attracted to both genders. I guess that is bisexual. The weird thing is though, I haven't been in a relationship with a guy before, just girls.
Anyway, besides the point!
I don't really want to watch pornography, because I just feel guilty and weird when I do. I think that porn gives this false idea about how sex is really like!

Another thing that makes me laugh when I think about it is that I am not a fan of masturbating! I hear it is really good, but I just can't be bothered to 'fap' off for a while. Hahaa.

I know it seems like I am a lost cause now, but it is really frustrating. sexually frustrating! Sometimes, I am literally so bored, that I go onto Omegle, and flirt with strangers just to get that sexual thrill (not expecting to get anything out of it).

ahhhhhhhhh :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

I feel the exact same way - I'm Male, 17 and attracted to both males and females too and suspect that i might also be bisexual. Like yourself, i've only been in relationships with females and as such don't know whether i am merely physically attracted to guys or am also emotionally attracted them.

I've used Omegle too but it's terrible - It's full of older men jerking off, that's not why i'm on there for, i'm on there to find others in my situation!

I don't watch pornography often but masturbation for me is a regular occurence.
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I feel the exact same way - I'm Male, 17 and attracted to both males and females too and suspect that i might also be bisexual. Like yourself, i've only been in relationships with females and as such don't know whether i am merely physically attracted to guys or am also emotionally attracted them.

I've used Omegle too but it's terrible - It's full of older men jerking off, that's not why i'm on there for, i'm on there to find others in my situation!

I don't watch pornography often but masturbation for me is a regular occurrence.
This!!!

Although, sometimes, I feel so horny (lol, the word sounds so funny to me) that I don't care about the jerking off. I use omegle to flirt, and it gives me a sexual high just for a bit.

I don't actually want to be in a relationship right now, I am more into discovering myself in terms of what I want from life, or the next 5 years. Since I'm going into yr 13 and stuff, I need to start making decisions and keep working hard.

- Z
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Oh by the way, any responses I make I will add a Z at the end, to differentiate between other anonymous posters!

Thank you all for responses so far. I think that experimenting will be a lot of fun, I think parties are the best place to do that. But literally, because I am going into yr 13, my parents will definitely not want me going out partying! :/
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I guess i'm the same. Constantly horny, attracted to both guys and girls... although i'd agree masturbating does help. You should try it
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Also what do you mean by 'not ready' to lose your virginity?
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(Original post by xbethany)
Why and why?
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Anonymous #1
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Also what do you mean by 'not ready' to lose your virginity?
Like, I don't know if I am confident enough in myself. Like I want to be completely comfortable to be naked in front of someone else before I think I'll be ready to have sex.
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Honestly all you can do is masturbate, there seems to be no other way except to just sleep with someone each night. You could continue using Omegle if that gives you a sexual high. Or try some kind of distraction like work maybe???
Not sure. You can always PM me if you like if you ever want to talk
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so It seems like masturbation is the key... :/ It does make sense for me to do it, if it is the only thing I can do. Lol, if I had sex with someone every night, I would completely lose interest in sex because it will become boring. Also, I still need to accomplish that 'comfortableness' with my body. I think I am getting more and more comfortable though
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Take a long cold shower son.
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(Original post by xbethany)
Just go for it. 'Discover your sexuality' or whatever, haha.
It is a tiny pic, but I am sure that discovering it with you would be much more interesting. :sexface:

(Just a wild compliment!)
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Aw, OP, you sound adorable. Who uses ten 'eek' smilies in a row!?

I remember when I was 17 and I was also quite horny. Unlike you, I did watch porn but also like you it never felt OK with me, and so I'd wait and wait and then splurge out for hours, which I guess wasn't exactly healthy.

I think masturbation is a good idea, but also, are you creative at all? Sometimes when I feel very 'alive' in this sense I might create a collage or something -- nothing amazingly avant garde or anything like that, but just a way of projecting my feelings. So I might create what I might call a 'hieroglyhph' in the sense of projecting my sexual fantasies outwards where I can process them.

Also, it's really not surprising that all your emotional or physical outlets have been with women, even though you feel you like both sexes. Our society doesn't really expect gay relationships as the norm, and so often we experiment in these much later on in life.

I think the important thing is to cherish a sense of the uniqueness of your sexuality and your identity. You can't fit a mould, and I guess only as time goes by do we integrate it into our identities. And it's ever changing according to our age and environment.

It's also worth remembering that it's a great blessing to feel so alive in the world! I don't know if you've ever read any Shakespeare, but some of his comedies are just fantastic for realising that other people -- especially teenagers, can also be horny too. He just communicates it in such wonderful ways which really make it all so alive and invigorating.
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Aren't most 17 year olds horny? :erm:
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the question is.. how? lool :P

Me and my virgin friends keep saying that we just want to lose our virginity. She is unable to lose is because of certain factors in her culture. Me, I just don't know if I am ready, even though I want to.

Masturbating takes literally soooo long! I live at home, with my parents + brother! What if they walk it?!?!!??!?
Do it in the toilet then ,or in the bath/shower , just run the water loudly so they can hear and won't walk in, and then do your thing
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Anonymous #1
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lool! most 17 year olds are horny. but most of them either watch porn, masturbate, or completely ignore the horniness/aren't tempted
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