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Why are men such children?

Does anyone else have the problem that their boyfriend acts like a child 90% of the time, more often than not in public places. We were in town today and he said he was hungry and i said 'ok, i just need to go to this shop then we'll go get something to eat', perfectly reasonable i thought and he stamped his foot, threw my hand out of his and wailed 'But i'm hungry' in the most childish of ways. I could really kill himsometimes, he's 24 years old and i keep wondering when he is gonna start acting like it, at 5 years older than me you'd think i'd be the less mature one but i find my self feeling less like a girlfriend and more like a mother. Plus he doesn't see that he's doing anything wrong and laughs at me when i get angry. Its so frustrating cos he does it all the f***ing time. Anyone else have this problem?

Reply 1

Why are men such children?


Because we are all alike?

Reply 2

Why are women such nagging biatches? Why are women psychotic?

Boys and girls are not socially compatible they are naturally only good for ONE TIME SEX. Then the men are supposed to find another woman to blow a load in. The woman finds another partner too.

You either deal with it or find yourself another mate.

Reply 3

haha yeh my bf acts like a 5 year old most of the time and i dont think he will ever grow up but thats why i love him.

Reply 4

wonderboy :biggrin:

We do act like little kids but you know if my gf had been taking me round shops all day spending my money then I want my damn cheeseburger when I ask for it.

Reply 5

My boyfriend is proud of the fact that he acts like a 5 year old! He'd happily describe himself as immature lol

Reply 6

The_Crow
Does anyone else have the problem that their boyfriend acts like a child 90% of the time, more often than not in public places. We were in town today and he said he was hungry and i said 'ok, i just need to go to this shop then we'll go get something to eat', perfectly reasonable i thought and he stamped his foot, threw my hand out of his and wailed 'But i'm hungry' in the most childish of ways. I could really kill himsometimes, he's 24 years old and i keep wondering when he is gonna start acting like it, at 5 years older than me you'd think i'd be the less mature one but i find my self feeling less like a girlfriend and more like a mother. Plus he doesn't see that he's doing anything wrong and laughs at me when i get angry. Its so frustrating cos he does it all the f***ing time. Anyone else have this problem?

Well, here is my recommended course of action.

1. dump the ****er.
2. go and slap yourself for the ridiculous, insulting stereotype.

Reply 7

supernova2
wonderboy :biggrin:

We do act like little kids but you know if my gf had been taking me round shops all day spending my money then I want my damn cheeseburger when I ask for it.

Thats fair enough, if your girlfriend had been dragging you round shops all day, but the incident i mentioned was 15 mins after we arrived in town, which can hardly be called all day.

Reply 8

I don't think that's really a problem.

I do not agree that us women are pyschotic. It's all lies. :smile:

Reply 9

The_Crow
Thats fair enough, if your girlfriend had been dragging you round shops all day, but the incident i mentioned was 15 mins after we arrived in town, which can hardly be called all day.

Whose money were you spending? How much had he eaten that day? Who drove / paid for the transport? How long do you normally spend in 'that' infamous shop?

Why could you not have gone separately? :eek:

Reply 10

generalebriety
Whose money were you spending? How much had he eaten that day? Who drove / paid for the transport? How long do you normally spend in 'that' infamous shop?

Why could you not have gone separately? :eek:

I was spending my money, it was about 11:00 and he had had a huge cooked breakfast and 9:30, he drove because he said he would and he's is the only one of us who drives, the 'infamous shop' as you call we don't often spend much time in cos if we go to it, we know exactly what we are looking for. We could have gone separately cos he as taking me straight from town to the train station to go home.

Reply 11

The_Crow
I was spending my money, it was about 11:00 and he had had a huge cooked breakfast and 9:30, he drove because he said he would and he's is the only one of us who drives, the 'infamous shop' as you call we don't often spend much time in cos if we go to it, we know exactly what we are looking for. We could have gone separately cos he as taking me straight from town to the train station to go home.

No... my point was if you don't take long in that shop why didn't he go and get his food (and your food for you) and bring it to the shop, by which time you'd probably have finished?

Reply 12

Meh, I'll admit to occasionally being quite childish, but on the other hand a lot of girls I know are quite childish too! It's all good fun though, why be in a hurry to grow up?

I would state that there's a big difference between "playful childishness" and "emotional immaturity" though... a lot of people seem to assume that just because someone is sometimes childish, they're immature... and also that "acting grown-up" makes someone a mature person. I don't believe this to be the case.

Reply 13

I am a 21, but a 42 year old by nature, part 40 year old, part 2 year old. :biggrin:

However when I am in a childish mood I am just messing around. I think it is just part of mans boyish charm. Wheras when my ex girlfriend was acting immature (mainly by being passive aggressive) she was doing it for real.

Reply 14

"midgy gem me want my midegy gems."

heh heh heh

its what we do i, my gf thinks its cute when i go all cild like

and women ae just as bloody bad always moaning about something

Reply 15

The_Crow
Does anyone else have the problem that their boyfriend acts like a child 90% of the time, more often than not in public places. We were in town today and he said he was hungry and i said 'ok, i just need to go to this shop then we'll go get something to eat', perfectly reasonable i thought and he stamped his foot, threw my hand out of his and wailed 'But i'm hungry' in the most childish of ways. I could really kill himsometimes, he's 24 years old and i keep wondering when he is gonna start acting like it, at 5 years older than me you'd think i'd be the less mature one but i find my self feeling less like a girlfriend and more like a mother. Plus he doesn't see that he's doing anything wrong and laughs at me when i get angry. Its so frustrating cos he does it all the f***ing time. Anyone else have this problem?


Men being fungible, I discern no 'problem'; just substitute him for an 'ascetic' model, and be done with it.