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Reply 20

#2(Laika)
yeh well i thought so....i mean many problems really come from the whole parent bonding....if you dont have a good relationship with your parents then you'll always feel lonely and never quite safe.....i had problems with my step dad growing up but i always had my mum i suppose...so things where alright.....have you got friends who you can talk to on an emotional level?



to be honest no, this is what saddens me as well. when i first started getting depressed and having breakdowns most of them just ditched me, i think one of the reasons why i may be so badly wanting to stay with my bf. also ive been doing research and ive found out if u had bad relationships with ur father it either puts u off men for life, or makes u stay with the complete wrong person.. which im doing sort of

Reply 21

hey listen we are here for you...anytime you need to talk or just let out some steam just post on here and im sure either me or someone else will help lighten the load....you musnt think that your alone..cause your not...you seem like a bright girl....and im sure you'll get back on your feet in no time...just hang in there babe...try to stay positive! :hugs:

Reply 22

thanx
i just dunno what to do
i might go see a doctor again
coz i cant go on like this i cant cope anymore with the physical and mental pain
but thanx
x

Reply 23

hey.. i just wanted to say to everyone
thank you for all your help
its juicylgd by the way, but a lot of people were sending me private msgs saying nasty stuff so ive created a new account for myself
im considering going back to the doctors again, although they didnt help last time
xxx

Reply 24

hey you...how are you doing??...feeling ok?

Reply 25

erm not so good really
hhad the crappest day ever, and funnily enough bumped into an ex boyf who just gave me grief.
and my muma nd everyones been shouting.. but how are you?!
xx

Reply 26

yeh im good, my day wasnt as eventful as yours but yeh im good...got any plans for the weekend?

Reply 27

juicy_lgd
hey.. i just wanted to say to everyone
thank you for all your help
its juicylgd by the way, but a lot of people were sending me private msgs saying nasty stuff so ive created a new account for myself
im considering going back to the doctors again, although they didnt help last time
xxx


have you tried seeing a different doctor if the one you saw before was useless maybe you could consider trying a different one, alternativly you could always phone up one of those depression hotlines and talk to somebody ona one to one basis!

take care of your self!

Reply 28

yeah but the same with the doctor
theyd probably just tell me to sort out whtaever in my life is making me depressed.. but no one can really do that can they apart from me?
x

Reply 29

Don't take this the wrong way, but this is whats leading into a visious cycle.

Your depressed...you try and talk to a doctor about it, he says you need to sort out what ever is making you depressed, which makes you more depressed, cause your doctor hasn't helped and your back to square one.

is there a reletive you could go away to and stay there for a few weeks, cause i really think that being in the environment that your in at the moment is really not helping. i think you need to clear your head, forget about everything and have a little break from it all, cause you on corse for a nervous breakdown. and i can tell u that having a break will do you so so much good. however, if you havn't got a reletive to go and stay with, by no means am i suggesting you should run away.

obviously i don't know you and the details of your situation, so please don't take my advice if you don't think it's the right thing to do.

but for now all i can say is take care of yourself!

Reply 30

i wish i could go stay with someone but i dont really have many cousins etc and the ones i do live in London so it's too far, and i dont think my mum would be too happy about it anyway
thank you so much for ur help
x

Reply 31

juicy_lgd
i wish i could go stay with someone but i dont really have many cousins etc and the ones i do live in London so it's too far, and i dont think my mum would be too happy about it anyway
thank you so much for ur help
x

runinng away from your problems is never a good idea anyway...its best you stay and and try to face them head on....sorry bout before by the way :smile:

Reply 32

juicy_lgd
i wish i could go stay with someone but i dont really have many cousins etc and the ones i do live in London so it's too far, and i dont think my mum would be too happy about it anyway
thank you so much for ur help
x


even for a few days would be good at least you'd get that break.

anyway i'm always here to help! :biggrin:

Reply 33

hey, welcome to the suck, i definitely think you should speak to someone, anyone you can trust, it helped me, if you need to talk were all here and some of us have been through this before, except i didn't suffer from headaches and the like, just i could never concentrate and my grades fell, so i'd see a doc about that, but if you make some good friends and talk about your problems, you'll be fine, everyone is here to help:smile: :tsr2:

yours chris

Reply 34

Flank Runner
hey, welcome to the suck, i definitely think you should speak to someone, anyone you can trust, it helped me, if you need to talk were all here and some of us have been through this before, except i didn't suffer from headaches and the like, just i could never concentrate and my grades fell, so i'd see a doc about that, but if you make some good friends and talk about your problems, you'll be fine, everyone is here to help:smile: :tsr2:

yours chris

:ditto:

Reply 35

#2(Laika)
:ditto:

and me :biggrin:

Reply 36

#2(Laika)
runinng away from your problems is never a good idea anyway...its best you stay and and try to face them head on....sorry bout before by the way :smile:


oh don't worry it's ok. and i'm sorry for complaining to the whole of tsr! i feel awful i just dont know what to do and feel like i cant cope :frown:

Reply 37

#2(Laika)
:ditto:




aww thank you so much. everyone that's been so nice. it means a lot to me. im gonna try going to see a doctor and then amybe a counsellor or something, but thank you so much xxxx

Reply 38

i dunno how to quote more than one msg in a post, so just thank you to everyonex

Reply 39

juicy_lgd
aww thank you so much. everyone that's been so nice. it means a lot to me. im gonna try going to see a doctor and then amybe a counsellor or something, but thank you so much xxxx

no probs :smile: ...you'll be fine babes!