.. what the hells wrong with me?

juicy_lgd

yeah i hope so, i just wish i didnt get so upset about everything!
Like ive just argued with my family and stuff and now im in tears!
Am i the only one that gets like that?Does everyone else just ignore it?
Arghhh i feel like im going mad

having a family argument and then crying about is perfectly fine hun, just try and make sure it doesnt wind you up, you cant really ignore it as it'll probably surface up again sooner or later, try and think about the positive things your life and somehow you'll pull through this dear :hugs:

juicy_lgd

and btw Laika.. you're my fave person on tsr so far!! :smile:

x

thanks..im chuffed :smile:

..my names Rafael (Rafy) by the way :smile:

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Lol this is gonna sound so negative but im not sure what the positive things are in my life?!
I mean i suppose im clever, but i've f*d up this year at college coz of all this crap that's happened... and now i'm gonna resit all my exams.. and it's just gonna be hell!
And my friends have ditched me so apart from my intelligence, which wasn't well exercised this year i have nothing!!
Rafael.. wow i love that name.!!xx

Reply 43

FeedTheGoat

Dress in black and grow a big fringe that covers one eye.

Reply 44

Flank Runner

take it from a soldier, theres a lot of good things in life, i'm currently sitting my a-level finals, the best thing is, with both exams and combat, stay calm, getting stressed never helps, never!, just take your time, sit back and think things through, talk to people, make friends, lifes what you make it, and you only get one chance, so do the right thing, be yourself and stop worrying, you have friends, you have a family and you have :tsr2:

lol, as you can see everyone is here to help you, its what friends are for :p:

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juicy_lgd

Lol this is gonna sound so negative but im not sure what the positive things are in my life?!
I mean i suppose im clever, but i've f*d up this year at college coz of all this crap that's happened... and now i'm gonna resit all my exams.. and it's just gonna be hell!
And my friends have ditched me so apart from my intelligence, which wasn't well exercised this year i have nothing!!
Rafael.. wow i love that name.!!xx

well you've gotta concentrate on resiting your exams and hopefully focus on that and dont let anyting distract you, as youve said your quite clever...(you sound quite bright)....so i suggest you stick to your studies cause thats one thing that'll help you in the future and not friends...friends come and go...on the other hand you might get lucky and actually find a genuine freind which is something very hard to do these days....all in all we're your mates now :biggrin:

..and we'll be here to cheer up whenever you need cheering :p:

Reply 46

Flank Runner

take it from a soldier, theres a lot of good things in life, i'm currently sitting my a-level finals, the best thing is, with both exams and combat, stay calm, getting stressed never helps, never!, just take your time, sit back and think things through, talk to people, make friends, lifes what you make it, and you only get one chance, so do the right thing, be yourself and stop worrying, you have friends, you have a family and you have :tsr2:

lol, as you can see everyone is here to help you, its what friends are for :p:

Reply 47

I know, but when you're actually in the situation it's so hard to just sit back,, when you feel like you can't cope all i do is cry, and thinking things through just reminds me of how crap things are. I know life's what i make it, and this last year it probably is my own fault whtas ahppened and everything, but i can't help it and i deeply regret it. I have tried to stop worrying, obvs i want to as it's killing me.. i can't eat, sleep, my headaches are soo annoying and constant.
I do have a family but they're not really a "family", they're not there for me qand ive asked for help but they dont seem bothered.
rant over!

Reply 48

#2(Laika)

well you've gotta concentrate on resiting your exams and hopefully focus on that and dont let anyting distract you, as youve said your quite clever...(you sound quite bright)....so i suggest you stick to your studies cause thats one thing that'll help you in the future and not friends...friends come and go...on the other hand you might get lucky and actually find a genuine freind which is something very hard to do these days....all in all we're your mates now :biggrin:

..and we'll be here to cheer up whenever you need cheering :p:

aww that is so sweet. YOU are officially the best person ever! I've decided, and thank you soo much. Isn't it annoying hearing me go on about my problems?
I'm really sorry, ive just been going through this since about december and ive no clue what to do!
:suith:

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juicy_lgd

YOU are officially the best person ever! I've decided, and thank you soo much.

wow thanks..im really flattered

juicy_lgd

Isn't it annoying hearing me go on about my problems?
I'm really sorry, ive just been going through this since about december and ive no clue what to do!
:suith:

not annoying at all, and dont be sorry :p:

, thats what we're here for...help people or try to anyway...hopefully you'll get back on your feet soon :smile:

Reply 50

yeah i hope so.
i guess im just gonna have to learn to live with the family thing.. coz i doubt it will ever change, or i don't think it'll change soon anyway.. but i'm grounded for the WHOLE of the summer holidays.. so i'm gonna be stuck in my room, and i'm guessing that's gonna make me worse!?

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