Fears

right there is this boy that is in my year me i still see him occasionally and he is really cute, i have liked him for a while,

he is always smiling at me when ever we see each other and we talking to each most of the time that we see each other. we are also both bits of a flirt

the only thing is if i ask him and he says yes then i will fell uncomfortable as a few years ago i was in a relationship in which i thought was going well but then i found out that he had been seeing another girl and that she was a old friend of my it really blew me as it was my first serious relationship

so how do i get over my fear of this happening again?

Reply 1

apricot

10

i say just go for it. maybe you can talk to him about how you got hurt and he will understand that he needs to be trusted that he won't do that to you

Reply 2

planes12

Anonymous

right there is this boy that is in my year me i still see him occasionally and he is really cute, i have liked him for a while,

he is always smiling at me when ever we see each other and we talking to each most of the time that we see each other. we are also both bits of a flirt

the only thing is if i ask him and he says yes then i will fell uncomfortable as a few years ago i was in a relationship in which i thought was going well but then i found out that he had been seeing another girl and that she was a old friend of my it really blew me as it was my first serious relationship

so how do i get over my fear of this happening again?

It's horrible because i have had a best friend that left me, i know it wasnt a relationship but it's the same feeling. i guess the best thing in life is to have real good friends, i mean i am still trying to find real friends.
basically it's best to have alot of stable friends around you that way you will feel better.

Reply 3

TomX

14

I was afraid of spiders but one day I decided to just pick one off. Contrary to the film Arachnophobia I never died, which is where my fears stemed from... damn film.

Reply 4

matt@internet

12

Love like you have never been hurt :smile:

Reply 5

jellybones

It's really horrible what your supposed 'friend' and boyfriend di to you but now you've just go to put it all behind you and live your life! You can never tell what's going to happen but you should give this guy a chance I'm sure he will prove to be a much better boyfriend than your ex. If your a bit worried then take it slow. Ask him out on a casual date, for drinks or to the cinema and just have fun!

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

well i asked him out yesterday and we have our first date in saturday night so it's ok at the moment we will have to see :biggrin:

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

he said that he was going to take me some where as a Surprise so i will keep you informed

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