Girla advice...whats the worst that could happen?!

Ok, I've know this unbelievable girl, I reckon she's perfect, for about a year. She's stunning, the nicest and most easy to get along with person I've ever met, we have loads of common interests, and a load of really weird coincidences from our past. After speaking to her for five minutes I felt like I'd known her for years.

One problem is that there is a 3 hour gap between us in driving terms, and since meeting last summer we've only met up a few times since on a friendly basis.

The thing is that as you can probably tell, I really, I really like her, if ye get my drift.

I'm going to see her in the next couple of weeks and I feel like if I don't tell her now I never will.

So - if I tell her how I feel, and she comes back and says 'no chance', how could that affect our friendship do you reckon, as in will she not want to spend time with me because she knows the way I feel?

having said that I'm pretty confident she wont say no! :smile:

Reply 1

Freezer

1

Long distance relationships are hard, but I know where ur coming from
When you find that 1girl who is amazing in your mind, shudnt let nything get in the way

Reply 2

Segat1

16

It might be awkward if she says no but then you have the distance advantage - if you lived in the same village you'd see each other all the time and that would be v v awkward. However you have the 3 hrs of breathing space!!

But fingers crossed!! Good luck!

Reply 3

Audacious

4

even if she says no(i hope she doesn't) it might be awkward for a short while, but after a bit it will probably(not definately) settle down to normal. If it is a no answer give her a bit of breathing space to work things out(trust me on that one, breathing space is needed) but it doesnt nessasarily mean the end of the friendship.

hope it does go well for you though! *fingers crossed*

Reply 4

devilwallride

1

Anonymous

Ok, I've know this unbelievable girl, I reckon she's perfect, for about a year. She's stunning, the nicest and most easy to get along with person I've ever met, we have loads of common interests, and a load of really weird coincidences from our past. After speaking to her for five minutes I felt like I'd known her for years.

One problem is that there is a 3 hour gap between us in driving terms, and since meeting last summer we've only met up a few times since on a friendly basis.

The thing is that as you can probably tell, I really, I really like her, if ye get my drift.

I'm going to see her in the next couple of weeks and I feel like if I don't tell her now I never will.

So - if I tell her how I feel, and she comes back and says 'no chance', how could that affect our friendship do you reckon, as in will she not want to spend time with me because she knows the way I feel?

having said that I'm pretty confident she wont say no! :smile:

Heh, I've been in kinda the same position minus the long distance bit...
Know what you mean dude but you gotta tell her otherwise you'll end up regretting it!
No guts no glory, I'd rather try and fail than always be thinking 'what if?'
You'll probabaly remain friends if she doesn't feel the same, but it'll definitely effect your relationship in some way!

Reply 5

dh00001

16

yea definatly tell her. also you think she'll say yes so should be fine.
the worst that could happen is she has a secret goverment implant in her brain that activates when you tell her how you feel and she becomes the most deadly weapon ever created. resulting in her cutting you up in your sleep and making you into a stew. But thats the worst :p:

Reply 6

Scarlett49

If you dont like the idea of her being with someone else then you definitely have to ask her before she gets with someone else if you get my drift? If she says no, you have to accept it and get over it - it obviously wasnt meant to be. If she says yes then you need to talk about the distance thing because obviously it will be a big factor it your relationship - good luck!

Girla advice...whats the worst that could happen?!

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