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My boyfriends best friend is a girl..

My boyfriends best friend is a girl and he has only know her for 4 months..I recently met her and we have been friends too.Apparently she has a boyfriend as well but I always feel like she keeps flirting with my man..Like siitng on his laps..rubbing his ears..speaking 2 him in thier language that i don't understand..

What do you think i should do?? Should i start flirintg with his friends or tell him how I feel about it??? Or any other suggestions..Hurry... :frown:

Reply 1

PrinceOfCats

12

He is almost certainly having passionate sex with her. But this is just the kind of problem menage a trois was meant to solve...

Reply 2

crazyhead

3

hes lying, either he fancies her or she fancies him, either way theres chemsitry by the sound of it

Reply 3

Lynnie

i understand how u feel, most girls would feel the way you do, its a girl thing and males always fail to understand it. You have to tell him i know it sounds cliche, but dont make it sound like ur moaning, just say its worrying you a bit. He needs to realise any girlfriend would feel the way u feel!

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Have you not seen neighbours? Don't do anything or he'll dump her
!!!!!!!!!!

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

sorry meant u!

Reply 6

Anonymous #3

Chilllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll...

Whats wrong with having a best friend as a girl? A few years back, my most trusted and valued friends were like 3 girls and I had a g/f who was also their friend... It aint nothing, trust me. Don't be paranoid about it...

Reply 7

Pseudomuse

1

The language thing is out of order though. tell him not to do it cause thats just as bad as talking about you behind his back!

Reply 8

Anonymous #4

Id be wary if i were you, she may not like having to share him with you which is why she is acting like this and so it maybe she doesnt feel anything more for him at all - she may just want to make you jealous

Reply 9

juicy_lgd

Obviously there's nothing wrong with having a girl best friend, but there behaviour seems kind of sexual.
Although some boy and girl friends just gert very close, so i wouldnt do anything too drastic id just talk to him about her, and if he gets shy then you might be able to interpet from that there is something going on?
Sorry if i didnt help!x

Reply 10

butterflytears

Just think - would he treat his guy friends the same way. If there is a major difference then you have a problem.

Reply 11

Itchynscratchy

10

your being paraniod. grow up

Reply 12

juicy_lgd

butterflytears

Just think - would he treat his guy friends the same way. If there is a major difference then you have a problem.

Well said
x

Reply 13

Unregistered

Anonymous

My boyfriends best friend is a girl and he has only know her for 4 months..I recently met her and we have been friends too.Apparently she has a boyfriend as well but I always feel like she keeps flirting with my man..Like siitng on his laps..rubbing his ears..speaking 2 him in thier language that i don't understand..

What do you think i should do?? Should i start flirintg with his friends or tell him how I feel about it??? Or any other suggestions..Hurry... :frown:

Tell your boyfriend that it's great he can be friends with girls, it's a good quality but say that flirting is unnecessary and you draw the line at such intimacies, if he does not like what you have to say then find somebody else x

Reply 14

Itchynscratchy

10

Itchynscratchy

your being paraniod. grow up

Ok let me explain my stance. I have some female friends that i am fairly close to as well. And if my girlfriend suddenly told me to stop being friendly with my friends i would be pretty annoyed to be honest. The way i see it, it is her paranioa problem and she should deal with her own jealousy rather than making her boyfriend suffer because of it.

And also, if you are going to neg me, and least leave your name. Not doing so is just cowardly. anonymously calling me petty is fairly petty in itself.

Reply 15

Bathwiggle

11

I've been the female best friend with the jelous girl friends, but i never sat on his lap, or rubbed his ears. If you are worried, either speak to him about it, and just let him reassure you, don't accuse him of cheating or anything, or if your friends with her, tell her how you feel, but what ever you do, dont tell him 'me or her', he could well choose her, as my best friend chose me when his gf did that

Reply 16

Bathwiggle

11

I've been the female best friend with the jelous girl friends, but i never sat on his lap, or rubbed his ears. If you are worried, either speak to him about it, and just let him reassure you, don't accuse him of cheating or anything, or if your friends with her, tell her how you feel, but what ever you do, dont tell him 'me or her', he could well choose her, as my best friend chose me when his gf did that

Reply 17

FeedTheGoat

You've got to stop the ear rubbing at all costs.. there's no telling where that will lead :eek:

Reply 18

WaW™

3

Timeslikethese

Tell your boyfriend that it's great he can be friends with girls, it's a good quality but say that flirting is unnecessary and you draw the line at such intimacies, if he does not like what you have to say then find somebody else x

That is the right way to go about it!

Well said. boys and girls can be friends but the flirting is not needed but is probably harmless bit of fun!

Reply 19

demonbuttercup

1

If he's doing that while you're around then that's not right...but then why don't you get there first and then she won't have the opportunity? If some girl was doing that with my boyf in front of me I wouldn't be happy... but as they're best friends... I don't know really. Just ask him about it if you feel you have to

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