im ugly, give me tips

im a guy and im ugly, 18 and never had a gf. its my eyes really im just not very good looking at all, is there anything i can do to alter my face appearance. it will help me with confidence if i have a good face. i have an ok personality but my face is just holding me back from going out there... :frown:

is there any way i can change my face without surgery ? i never get any attention from girls.

guys what do u do to improve ur looks? and girls what wud u suggest?

Reply 1

goodLife

Anonymous

im a guy and im ugly, 18 and never had a gf. its my eyes really im just not very good looking at all, is there anything i can do to alter my face appearance. it will help me with confidence if i have a good face. i have an ok personality but my face is just holding me back from going out there... :frown:

is there any way i can change my face without surgery ? i never get any attention from girls.

guys what do u do to improve ur looks? and girls what wud u suggest?

Just be cool and have a bit of confidence :smile:

Post a pic and maybe we can be honest and suggest what would suit you etc.

Reply 2

WaW™

3

DAMN! Know one is ugly! Just because girls do not look at you in that way does not make you ugly! has i occurred that it maybe due to something else.

How can your face just be ugly it is preposterous and i think you just lack a little confidence, one day a girl will take notice and the world shall be a better place.

Reply 3

Sezkin

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Anonymous

im a guy and im ugly, 18 and never had a gf. its my eyes really im just not very good looking at all, is there anything i can do to alter my face appearance. it will help me with confidence if i have a good face. i have an ok personality but my face is just holding me back from going out there... :frown:

is there any way i can change my face without surgery ? i never get any attention from girls.

guys what do u do to improve ur looks? and girls what wud u suggest?

Don't be so hard on yourself, you probably don't even notice the girls looking at you, anyway, us girls tend not to make it obvious. Anyway, if you really want to attract girls, confidence is the way to go, lots of girls like it when a lad is confident and open to lots of people.
About looks, just be happy with what you've got, smile more,give more eye contact to people, basically show that your a happy person, I mean I love it when lads smile and seem to love life and is up for anything. Hope that helped. :smile:

Sezkin

Reply 4

Glory

1

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Have confidence about yourself and the right girl will find you attractive. No-one should ever feel they need to change their apperence to impress other people, the only reason for it is your confidence.

Why dont you tell us what particulary your not happy with, your eyes right? Maybe if its bags or dark circles we could suggest some beauty treatements. Nowt wrong with a guy making a effort either, they really need to remove the girlie aura from it.

Reply 5

Profesh

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Anonymous

im a guy and im ugly, 18 and never had a gf. its my eyes really im just not very good looking at all, is there anything i can do to alter my face appearance. it will help me with confidence if i have a good face. i have an ok personality but my face is just holding me back from going out there... :frown:

is there any way i can change my face without surgery ? i never get any attention from girls.

guys what do u do to improve ur looks? and girls what wud u suggest?

Attach a picture; if your being 'ugly' is a foregone conclusion then you've nothing to lose by it, and everything to gain.

Reply 6

silverbolt

19

you need to stop worrying on about it, non confident ugly people give out vibes that turn everyone off them at some point, but confident people attract people to them no matter what they look like and that will help you in itself.

You say your ugly and by doing so you cut your chances with anyone. You need to say

yeah i have flaws but so does everyone else who cares im still a mean hunk of man meat that the ladies wanna take a bite out of me.

Reply 7

Flank Runner

No one is ugly, as everyone has a different opinion on what ugly is, therefore you can never be ugly to everyone, simple logic, from what i can tell, you simply lack confidence, just put yourself out there and you'll find that special lady, make plenty of female friends, spend time with them and let things develop, just be yourself and you'll be fine,
good luck and take it easy mate,
yours chris :smile:

Reply 8

bountykk

you could get a face transplant like in france

Reply 9

matchu

2

Place your big toe on the trigger whilst positioning the barrel on the roof of your...........

Oh, Nevermind

Reply 10

1013

1

I would never call anyone ugly but some people are less facially attractive than others. Short of reconstuctive surgery, there's not much you can do about it. Why not concentrate on building yourself a ripped body instead? Oh, and it's what's inside that counts, blah,blah...

Reply 11

sam_sam

i have an ok personality

OK?! you've gotta try and be more accepting of yourself my dear! looks aside, be confident that you're a nice person (if you aren't a very nice person, make an effort to be nice! for example, pay attention when people are talking, respond, give people compliments when it's deserved, make an effort with your friends/ family) and then people will see how lovely you are, despite any possible physical flaws.

And, to be honest, if the people really care, looks shouldn't matter. However i am aware that that's pretty easily said, because in social situations girls are often gonna see your looks before they meet you.. if you feel like this is whats holding you back, try and make an effort with the aspects of your appearance that you can change:

-hair
-teeth (as in brush them to sparkly whiteness :biggrin:

)
-clothes (wear what you feel confident and comfortable in, it may give you a head start with confidence boosting)
-general cleanless, and maybe use clearasil or oxy products (if you have spots ofcourse, you didn't give us much detail so i'm stabbing in the dark here!)

But you have to remember that these are all pretty immaterial in comparison to confidence, and a shining personality. I find that the classic 'hot guys' rely too much on their looks and let the charm slip, hence i tend to go for funny and chirpy guys, good looking or not!

Hope something in this uber long post help~! sorry again for the length! got a bit carried away it seems :biggrin:

all the best, sam xxxx

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Reply 12

ciara

13

I don't really see how a face could be THAT amazingly ugly. The unattractive aspects of a face are things you can do something about: bad teeth, a monobrow, acne, a bad haircut (not really face but frames the face so kind of). The only other things I can think of that you can't do much about are an enormous nose or sticky out ears, which still don't mean you're destined for singledom unless you have surgery!

I'm in the post a photo camp, but also maybe you should think that it might not be your face but your total lack of confidence that's putting people off.

Reply 13

djmm

15

Profesh

Attach a picture; if your being 'ugly' is a foregone conclusion then you've nothing to lose by it, and everything to gain.

What would attaching a picture prove? If he's ugly, he has nothing to gain. Unless ofcourse, (a) other users being 'kind' by patronising him, or (b) people equally as ugly as himself (unlucky, btw) finding him attractive.

The key is to find a girl within your means; if you're ugly don't try for good looking girls, and if you're good looking don't settle for ugly folk.

With love, DJ Mark.

Reply 14

SuperhansFavouriteAlsatian

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Worth a try.

Reply 15

djmm

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sam_sam

try and make an effort with the aspects of your appearance that you can change:

-teeth (as in brush them to sparkly whiteness :biggrin:

)

What if someone doesn't have any teeth?

Reply 16

djmm

15

Cadre_Of_Storms

you need to stop worrying on about it, non confident ugly people give out vibes that turn everyone off them at some point, but confident people attract people to them no matter what they look like and that will help you in itself.

You say your ugly and by doing so you cut your chances with anyone. You need to say

yeah i have flaws but so does everyone else who cares im still a mean hunk of man meat that the ladies wanna take a bite out of me.

Ehhh... Aye. Must be a 'local' thing. Doesn't happen in my town. Or where I happen to visit.

Reply 17

djmm

15

Flank Runner

No one is ugly, as everyone has a different opinion on what ugly is, therefore you can never be ugly to everyone, simple logic, from what i can tell, you simply lack confidence, just put yourself out there and you'll find that special lady, make plenty of female friends, spend time with them and let things develop, just be yourself and you'll be fine,
good luck and take it easy mate,
yours chris :smile:

Au contraire.

Out of interest - did they teach English at your school?

Reply 18

djmm

15

ciara

I don't really see how a face could be THAT amazingly ugly. The unattractive aspects of a face are things you can do something about: bad teeth, a monobrow, acne, a bad haircut (not really face but frames the face so kind of). The only other things I can think of that you can't do much about are an enormous nose or sticky out ears, which still don't mean you're destined for singledom unless you have surgery!

I'm in the post a photo camp, but also maybe you should think that it might not be your face but your total lack of confidence that's putting people off.