Is kissing cheating Watch

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Ok, last night I kissed a mutual friend (at least I thought he was) of my boyfriend and me. Now I'm really worried that if I tell my boyfriend he'll hate me and I really really love him and can't imagine being without him. I was drunk - but I know that's no excuse!!!!
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simple. don't tell him.

and yes it is cheating.
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(Original post by RainbowGirl85)
Ok, last night I kissed a mutual friend (at least I thought he was) of my boyfriend and me. Now I'm really worried that if I tell my boyfriend he'll hate me and I really really love him and can't imagine being without him. I was drunk - but I know that's no excuse!!!!
As far as I'm concerned, kissing is cheating. Your boyfriend might think differently.

Tell him as soon as you possibly can (now?) and make sure he knows there is nothing for him to worry about. The longer you keep it a secret, the more trouble it will cause. He's bound to find out in the end.
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(Original post by RainbowGirl85)
Ok, last night I kissed a mutual friend (at least I thought he was) of my boyfriend and me. Now I'm really worried that if I tell my boyfriend he'll hate me and I really really love him and can't imagine being without him. I was drunk - but I know that's no excuse!!!!
yes its cheating. but if hes worth it, then by teelin him and admittin what u did, he may b able to understand and trust u MORE for bein so honest

but its downt o u in the end
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yes kissing another person is cheating lol. what else would it be?! Dont tell him unless ur gunna get found out, itl only hurt the both of you xx
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(Original post by RainbowGirl85)
Ok, last night I kissed a mutual friend (at least I thought he was) of my boyfriend and me. Now I'm really worried that if I tell my boyfriend he'll hate me and I really really love him and can't imagine being without him. I was drunk - but I know that's no excuse!!!!
Simple Answer.

Yes, it is cheating.
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You don't really really love him at all.. because if you did - you wouldn't have done it. His your boyfriend and you probably like him alot.. but that isn't love, so stop kidding yourself. You're worried about him hating YOU, and didn't even raise the question of how he might feel when he finds out.
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(Original post by James_W)
You don't really really love him at all.. because if you did - you wouldn't have done it. His your boyfriend and you probably like him alot.. but that isn't love, so stop kidding yourself. You're worried about him hating YOU, and didn't even raise the question of how he might feel when he finds out.
but what is love?
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Well - love isn't acting in a way that could really upset the other person.. that's all that matters.
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(Original post by abdooooo!!!)
but what is love?
Caring more about someone else than yourself
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(Original post by abdooooo!!!)
but what is love?
a question which has been asked many many times lol
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(Original post by James_W)
You don't really really love him at all.. because if you did - you wouldn't have done it. His your boyfriend and you probably like him alot.. but that isn't love, so stop kidding yourself. You're worried about him hating YOU, and didn't even raise the question of how he might feel when he finds out.

Don't start worrying about whether you really love him or not. You've already said you love him, so it's fairly certain that you do.

Love is not black and white. You can even love someone and hate them at the same time, so loving him and drunkenly kissing someone else is possible.

He will probably feel awful when he finds out, but you've got to give him all the information. If he finds out through someone else, he will feel stupid and humiliated as well as everything else.
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Yes, I have considered how this will effect him, that's the point of the post!!!!!!
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love: a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
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HOW TO TELL HIM --> MSN, Phone or FAce to Face?
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face to face. yes it is cheating
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You should tell him. If he finds out he'll know you've been keeping secrets and he will think the only reason you didn't tell him was to protect yourself - so if you don't tell him you're being selfish too. I think everyone deserves a second chance, people do make wrong decisions (even when they're drunk!!). If it was a one-off, and he knows you well enough he should realise that it was a mistake. Good luck...
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def face to face, he'l respect u more
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(Original post by RainbowGirl85)
HOW TO TELL HIM --> MSN, Phone or FAce to Face?
Now that's a silly question! Face to face!!!!!!
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(Original post by RainbowGirl85)
Ok, last night I kissed a mutual friend (at least I thought he was) of my boyfriend and me. Now I'm really worried that if I tell my boyfriend he'll hate me and I really really love him and can't imagine being without him. I was drunk - but I know that's no excuse!!!!
lol ofcourse it is cheating and never tell your boyfriend btw
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