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Reply 1

If you havent been loved by your parents.. according to psychologists.

Reply 2

It used to be so easy
To give my heart away
But I found out the hard way
Theres a price you have to pay
I found that love
Is more than just a game
Playing to win
But you lose just the same.

Hope that helps.

Reply 3

Biker I dunno whether to take that as a lesson or be depressed...

Why: really? :eek:

Reply 4

Axon
It is easy to fall in love, but the girl should by all means be the wiser one and try to restrict herself.


Why should it be the girl??? why not the guy hmm?

Reply 5

do you mean "easily" or "quickly"? i dunno, i just reckon there's a difference there. as in...

it's "easy" to fall in love with someone that you're good mates with, who's company you enjoy, etc etc, but it might not be "quick" because you haven't realised all the signs...
hope i'm making sense, lol.

Reply 6

Poison Ivy
Biker I dunno whether to take that as a lesson or be depressed...

Why: really? :eek:

Its a song called "Still Got the Blues" by Gary Moore - I would recommend you have a listen and it would certainly help you mull over this issue very well. Its amazing how there is a piece of music that can resolve almost every issue for you - its just a matter of finding it.

Reply 7

Why
If you havent been loved by your parents.. according to psychologists.



thats really interesting. do you have a link to an article?

Reply 8

Axon
The girl is <mother india> :biggrin:

I mean, logically she has more responsibilities in the relationship.

Just; don't do it!


She has more responsibilities??? like?


Biker: cheers will have a listen :smile:

Daria: Easily...

Others: Sowwy can't remember what you all said!

Reply 9

no worries - feel free to say how you find it...

Reply 10

hmmm... well, if you're talking easily, then i reckon it can be done... (speaking from experience, lol). (easily and involuntarily too, lol.)

d'you see that as a problem though, or is this just like a general question for opinions?

Reply 11

Just a general question for opinions!

Though *whispers*
(could possibly turn into a poison ivy dilemma!)

Reply 12

lol, well, i hope it doesn't turn into a major dilemma... do what u think is best if it does =P

Reply 13

Of course you can. It's all about the mood and the frame of mind you're in, when you meet the person.

People try to set social requirements to define love: "it can't be love because you're too young" or "it can't be love because you've only known him/her for a few weeks" but the thing is, how can you ? It's just a feeling and at the end of the day, it's how you feel that matters. Not what other people tell you.

However, people can question why you feel that way: is it really because this person is so great that you're in love?

I also reckon that every time you develop strong feelings for someone, you try to play down any feelings you might have had in the past as not as strong. It's easy because a lot of people forget how they felt...

Reply 14

Daria I dont know what to think at the moment :frown:

Sam: Too many Q's man, too much deep thinking would be required and i'm too hot to think right now lol

Reply 15

Poison Ivy
Sam: Too many Q's man, too much deep thinking would be required and i'm too hot to think right now lol


Um, what's the point of this thread? :confused:

Reply 16

Yes, I always do and it can hurt so much.

Reply 17

SamTheMan
Um, what's the point of this thread? :confused:


Ok ok chill!

At the moment its a case of what other people are thinking of me feeling like this...so back to Daria's original Q it's quickly as well as easily if that makes sense.

Reply 18

Poison Ivy
At the moment its a case of what other people are thinking of me feeling like this...


If you fall in love easily because that's how you're feeling well you fall in love easily. Other people's approval won't make it any more or less real.

Reply 19

Well it is slightly crazy in a way too quickly and easily...

Aaarrgghh i so so sooooooo do not like this!