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The one.........

Do you believe in this? I'm 18, I would say ive had my fair share of good looking girlfriends, But theres one I cant get out my head, we had a magical time together for AGES, she changed me from the man slag into a decent sweet guy...

Its been nearly a year now since she moved and I still think about her... I dunno wether its a crush or shes the one.........
We still talk, flirt but cant do alot else when shes in scotland...

People say its puppy love Im just confused....

Reply 1

butterflytears

so she moved away? perhaps you still think of her because she was taken away in the height of your relationship when everything was still perfect? Whereas the other girls, things eventually went wrong so you view them differently now?

in answer to your question no i dont believe in "the one". I think there are many people out there someone can be happy with. The chore is just finding one!

Reply 2

clouddweller

i dont believe in the one; i believe you find someone you love and you work bloody hard to make it work. If you do believe in the one though, and you thought she was it, surely you wouldnt have to ask? And surely you'd be doing everything you could to make something happen with her?
Thats not meant to sound accusing by the way :redface:

(and i realise it could) i just read something once that struck a chord, in response to someone questioning whether they had left their 'one' and chosen someone else; the comment went along the lines of 'if they were the one would you really have left them?'
i think its part of why i dont believe there's just one. Imagine if there was and all other realationships were doomed
depressing as anything