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Would a guy ask a girl if she wanted to meet up...

Anonymous #1

..If he wasn't interested in her? x

Reply 1

xxbry23xx

1

um frm my experiences then if a guy asks u 2 meet up wid him on ur own then he's deffo interested

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

OP

Well not on your own...Just like with a few others? x

Reply 3

OppressedMass

13

Still means he's interested.

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Most likely, if a guy asks to meet up, then he probably does fancy her.

However, it would be interested to hear the history behind this story. How long has this girl known the boy? HAs their been a history of flirtation, or have you just met?

IF you do meet up i wouldnt assume it is a date, becasue if you're wrong things might get embarrassing. JUst play it by ear, you'll know if he fancies you (some girl)

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

Well there hasn't been much of a history. I've known him for about a year and we're just aquaintences who go to the same college. I've had a crush on him for months though and he's just recently found out that. But he didn't say he liked me back though so tis quite confusing.x

Reply 6

Vetinari

8

If he found out, and then asked if you wanted to meet up then he clearly isn't trying to give you the "I'm not interested" signal. If it's with a bunch of other people then try not to read too much into it - it may just be a friendly gathering. :smile:

Reply 7

Wanderlust

1

Er.

He might want to meet up just for a chat?

Reply 8

henryt

17

I've asked a girl who I like, but don't fancy to meet up to do Chemistry revision, which did somehow turn into us going to a cafe and eating chocolate cake.... Nevertheless, it isn't a hard and fast rule that if a guy says to a girl "We should meet up sometime" that the guy fancies the girl. It means that he want to meet up!!

Reply 9

*titanium*

12

This reminded me of a funny story, me and my freind where planning to go to town, my freind was speaking to some girl we know, on msn, just normal chat and asks her what she is doing over the weekend, just making conversation, so she tells him nothing, you? and hes like wana go town (as in he wants to) and she thought he was asking and said yes, well he didnt want to say the truth to her so just let her come.

Reply 10

Euan_hmfc

*titanium*

This reminded me of a funny story, me and my freind where planning to go to town, my freind was speaking to some girl we know, on msn, just normal chat and asks her what she is doing over the weekend, just making conversation, so she tells him nothing, you? and hes like wana go town (as in he wants to) and she thought he was asking and said yes, well he didnt want to say the truth to her so just let her come.

It really depends on your relationship with the person. If you are mates with the person, then it may be just another meetup with a mate.

Go along and see what happens - no point asking on a forum when we don't know all the in's and out's.

Reply 11

TomX

14

*titanium*

This reminded me of a funny story, me and my freind where planning to go to town, my freind was speaking to some girl we know, on msn, just normal chat and asks her what she is doing over the weekend, just making conversation, so she tells him nothing, you? and hes like wana go town (as in he wants to) and she thought he was asking and said yes, well he didnt want to say the truth to her so just let her come.

Well... that's what he told you. :P

Reply 12

MagicNMedicine

20

I quite often ask female friends if they want to meet up one on one, I think girls are more into a one on one situation and just talking than doing things in a group like lads are, so I do this all the time.
I sometimes wonder whether girls think that its another agenda though because occasionally they've been a bit funny about it and people have said to me that to a girl it looks like you are asking them on a date.

I suppose deep down the female friends who I meet up with this I do find attractive in some way anyway, so maybe subconsciously that is part of the motivation although I certainly don't see the meet as a date.

Reply 13

Kyri

15

It's possible that the guy might not be interested in that way. However, in my experience unless the girl is a really close friend of mine usually I would be asking them out because I was indeed interested.

MagicNMedicine

I sometimes wonder whether girls think that its another agenda though because occasionally they've been a bit funny about it and people have said to me that to a girl it looks like you are asking them on a date.

I don't know if it's the majority, but I know some girls certainly do think like that. Last easter holidays I asked a female friend of mine if she wanted to meet up and her reply was that she wasn't interested in a relationship with me. That actually shocked me a bit as it was totally unexpected seeing as that was not my intention at all.

Reply 14

Anonymous #1

OP

It's possible that the guy might not be interested in that way. However, in my experience unless the girl is a really close friend of mine usually I would be asking them out because I was indeed interested.

Hmm...well I wouldn't say we were close friends tbh. Just people who know each from school and speak now and again. I really like him. I wish I could have gone to see him now! What should I say to arrange another time?? x

Reply 15

1013

1

Nah, when a guy asks a girl to meet up, he means it in a date way, for sure.

Reply 16

*Fliss*

^ Thats not necessarily true. A guy has asked me out to watch a film or go watch a dvd over his, but he's also made it explicitly clear that we're just friends.

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