what makes guys want to be with girls?

I really don't understand men! So maybe you guys on TSR can give me a few hints?

Basically I have a lot of interest from guys, but not the guys I want to be interested in me. The guys who like me tend to like me a lot, and I'm told I'm a bit of a tease as far as they are concerned (which I don't mean to be at all, it just happens) but when I like someone I tend to do all the chasing. How can I learn to attract guys I'm actually interested in? The ones I like tend to run for the hills, whereas loads of others just won't leave me alone! SO I guess what I want is for some nice guy on here to let me in on the secret of what makes you want to be with someone (not physical things here) so I can attract the guys I like in the same way I seem to attract the ones I'm not actually interested in!

Thanks :redface:

Reply 1

Tariqé

Just be yourself. The right person will come along eventually! Consider yourself lucky that at least you have some people interested in you!

Seriously though, what i found so damn attractived about my ex was that she was so open and honest and was herself, she didnt try and pretend to be someone else just so that i would like her.

In the end, would you rather be with a nice guy and NOT being yourself, or with a nice guy and being yourself? Things between me and my ex came to an end because she kept things away from me because she didnt wanna "hurt me", and she didnt want to have to lie to me or herself anymore.

Have faith in us guys! you will meet the right type for you in time, but when you do, you want them to know the real you, right?

Hope all goes well! :smile:

Reply 2

planes12

The right person for you will come one day, i am 23 and haven't found the right person, but then i don't go out much.

So best thing is to go to a group where you share the same interests.

although i couldn't do that because i like planes and there isn't many females there unfortunatly.

Reply 3

NickNack

im told the harder you look the less likely you are to find

i dont quite understand how that works though :confused:

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

hm, i agree with most of the posts. I get so relaxed when I'm with some guys that i didn't fancy at all, at the end i found out they liked me very much. On the other hand, i would be shy and never speak to those that i like very much so nth happen between us. It's best to be yourself, and they will eventually be crazy for you lol.