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is there something wrong with this?

i met this really nice guy and we are kinda seeing each other taking things really slowly how i want things to go and hes so nice

he keeps saying how lovely he thinks i am and how pretty and gorgeous i am

i am like stop saying that i just can't think anyone thinks that of me!!

i feel strange in case he is lying, my mates think he likes me for real, i know he does but im just not sure

nones ever been as nice to me i just don't know why he is being so nice!!!

hes a nice guy i like him alot,

what the hell is wrong with me, im just being a selfish cow and i should think he means it,

grrrrr im racking my brains out thinking why he likes me can't think of anything

i dunt fish for compliments and i don't expect people to be nice to me, oh im just feeling strange about it

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Reply 1
Sounds like he's into you. You need to learn to accept compliments or people will stop giving them out. Sure, you may not see it yourself, but if you give someone a hard time for being nice to you they may stop doing it.. be happy and enjoy the fact that he thinks you're so wonderful :smile:
Reply 2
Anonymous
i met this really nice guy and we are kinda seeing each other taking things really slowly how i want things to go and hes so nice

he keeps saying how lovely he thinks i am and how pretty and gorgeous i am

i am like stop saying that i just can't think anyone thinks that of me!!

i feel strange in case he is lying, my mates think he likes me for real, i know he does but im just not sure

nones ever been as nice to me i just don't know why he is being so nice!!!

hes a nice guy i like him alot,

what the hell is wrong with me, im just being a selfish cow and i should think he means it,

grrrrr im racking my brains out thinking why he likes me can't think of anything

i dunt fish for compliments and i don't expect people to be nice to me, oh im just feeling strange about it


You'll get used to it.
Reply 3
Some people are so hard to please.:confused:
Reply 4
Why do some girls always over analyse things?
Reply 5
squirly
be happy and enjoy the fact that he thinks you're so wonderful :smile:

:yy:
Reply 6
There's a lass I know who if you call her gorgeous sulks, but call her mean and she grins like a cheshire cat. Now THAT is weird!
Reply 7
he likes you a lot your a very luckey girl
Reply 8
How old is he?
just need to know what his motives are.
Reply 9
OP
grrrrr im racking my brains out thinking why he likes me can't think of anything


Are you due to come into a large fortune in the near future?
Reply 10
Vetinari
Are you due to come into a large fortune in the near future?


If so

Your the most amazing stunning funny attractive cleaver witty and interesting person i have ever met :smile:
Reply 11
he is 24 and im 20,

none has ever been nice to me, ive met loads of new mates who are fantastic and hes lolvely as well

i suppose i just didn't know how to react to compliments as ive never been given any in the past!!
Reply 12
Anonymous
he is 24 and im 20,

none has ever been nice to me, ive met loads of new mates who are fantastic and hes lolvely as well

i suppose i just didn't know how to react to compliments as ive never been given any in the past!!

That's not bad, just enjoy yourselves:smile:
it does sound like he's genuine, sounds like you're just not used to being around such nice people, try and get used to it, sounds all good to me :smile:
Reply 14
i have serious trust issues with what people have done to me in the past,

i just can't help but think the worst of everyone,

i can't even trust myself and i don't trust anyone on this planet, not even my mates, it sounds bad i know but i don't want to be used and made a fool again, he is soo nice to me ive never been complimented like that in my life, and it made me smile but i couldn;t help but think, oh-uh, has he got a tenner on how far he gets with his mates,

im a bad person for thinking these things, its just me, i have no choice but to try and trust people otherwise everyone will be an enemy im so stupid lol thanx though people x
Reply 15
Anonymous
i have serious trust issues with what people have done to me in the past,

i just can't help but think the worst of everyone,

i can't even trust myself and i don't trust anyone on this planet, not even my mates, it sounds bad i know but i don't want to be used and made a fool again, he is soo nice to me ive never been complimented like that in my life, and it made me smile but i couldn;t help but think, oh-uh, has he got a tenner on how far he gets with his mates,

im a bad person for thinking these things, its just me, i have no choice but to try and trust people otherwise everyone will be an enemy im so stupid lol thanx though people x
Babe, you're not a bad person. You've just met a lovely guy who is into you and wants you to know it. Slowly you'll learn to trust him, and meanwhile enjoy it and get loads of snuggles from him.
Reply 16
thanx hun, ive told him already that not many people in this town are very fond of me as ive done some pretty horrid stuff to people when i was depressed and he just said to me, hun you don't have to explain it to me, i like you and nothing else matters,

but then if he hears something bad i did a year ago, he won't just shake it off, and brush it under the carpet will he?

i really liked being cuddled and him holding my hand ive not hugged anyone for ages and ages it felt so nice,

but i suppose i should see what happens, not heard from him since sunday, but its only tuesday, plus no way he'd meet me later all the mens eyes will be fixed on the footie lol, maybe tomorrow,

thanx x
Reply 17
Anonymous
thanx hun, ive told him already that not many people in this town are very fond of me as ive done some pretty horrid stuff to people when i was depressed and he just said to me, hun you don't have to explain it to me, i like you and nothing else matters,

but then if he hears something bad i did a year ago, he won't just shake it off, and brush it under the carpet will he?

i really liked being cuddled and him holding my hand ive not hugged anyone for ages and ages it felt so nice,

but i suppose i should see what happens, not heard from him since sunday, but its only tuesday, plus no way he'd meet me later all the mens eyes will be fixed on the footie lol, maybe tomorrow,

thanx x

Don't worry about it, he's told you it doesn't matter cos he likes you
I used to be in the same boat as you, I used to disbelieve somebody when they used to complement me, what i learnt is that people don't complement people unless they mean it, and they like you. this guy obviously likes you. just accept the complements and go along with it. it's only a matter of time before you start to belive it. it's nice that your a bit modest, but you just gotta accept the complements.

Take care of yourself :biggrin:
be more positive :biggrin: