Worried about going back to uni Watch

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A bit of back story:
I am worried about going back to uni this year because of a situation with an ex boyfriend.

It was quite a while ago and it didnt end very well, but we are in the same group of friends so we have patched things up between us and remained 'friends'.

Truth is, I still really care about him, and miss him a lot.

Problem:
He is now seeing another girl from our friendship group. She has never been interested before and in the past few months she has done some really spiteful things to people in the group just for revenge. The things she has done have upset so many people and broken friendships apart. I really do not like her for this.
I feel that she could just be seeing my ex to get back at others within the group.
We all live in the same block and do basically everything as a group.
But seeing them together hurts so much. I cant bear the though she is just stringing him along.

The only thing I can think to do is try to separate my self from having to see them together, but this would mean having to leave all my other friends too. I don't want to say anything to the others about it either because I don't want to be the one to cause another problem.

Its really bothering me at the moment, and meaning I am starting to dread going back.

Has anyone got any idea how I can make it any easier?
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(Original post by Anonymous)
A bit of back story:
I am worried about going back to uni this year because of a situation with an ex boyfriend.

It was quite a while ago and it didnt end very well, but we are in the same group of friends so we have patched things up between us and remained 'friends'.

Truth is, I still really care about him, and miss him a lot.

Problem:
He is now seeing another girl from our friendship group. She has never been interested before and in the past few months she has done some really spiteful things to people in the group just for revenge. The things she has done have upset so many people and broken friendships apart. I really do not like her for this.
I feel that she could just be seeing my ex to get back at others within the group.
We all live in the same block and do basically everything as a group.
But seeing them together hurts so much. I cant bear the though she is just stringing him along.

The only thing I can think to do is try to separate my self from having to see them together, but this would mean having to leave all my other friends too. I don't want to say anything to the others about it either because I don't want to be the one to cause another problem.

Its really bothering me at the moment, and meaning I am starting to dread going back.

Has anyone got any idea how I can make it any easier?
I'm in a similar situation apart from the fact that I fortunately am not in the same friendship group as my ex. Just be the bigger and better person and ignore them together, chances are she's probably a rebound anyway if he's moved on that quickly to somebody he wasn't even interested in previously. x
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