Dad 'playing away'

Hi, I have a large problem.

A short introduction: my father is about 50 years old and i am currently in first year a-levels. my mum is of a similar age.

Recently, i have witnessed my dad on chatrooms and msn (+ the phone) chatting to younger girls that are in their 30s. I have also 'caught' him on the free ads pages (the women ones) and have seen these numbers on our phone bill.

when i am in the car, he always slows down near the yonger female generation to get a good look at them, then speeds up once we're past them. also, he often honks the horn near them. he thinks that i am too naive to notice these things but i'm not.

My mum does not know about this, but my sister, who is older than me, does and she says to forget about it: she has noticed the same thing about three years ago and told my uncle to 'tell him off' and according to her it stopped soon after that. however, after my sister's wedding, it has started up again.

I find it really embarrassing and annoying to be in the car when he does these things, and i am too passive to cause an arguement. To me, it is so obvious when he does these things, and annoying when i have friends and family around as they seem to notice it too but are too nice not to say anything about it.

I have tried 'blocking' the websites from the router, but he ends up phoning netgear and enabling the website.

Lastly, amongst all this, he still attempts to be 'religious'. he 'follows' the religion's [hinduism] commands to an extent, goes to the place of worship about 3-4 times a week, but after going there, back to the laptop it is for some more MSN. he obviously doesn't follow the religion's commands of adultery.

the main thing that i hate is how hypocrytical he is and how embarrasing it is just to be in the same car as him. he's like a 50 year old, trying to seduce a 30 year old, but for him, all ages apply.

He often gotes to 'meetings' and 'tesco' according to what he tells us, and returns about 5 hours later with a 'morrisons' bag which doesn't make sense as there is no morrisons within a 10 mile radius of us. and i have seen the chat logs and he has wasted about £150 a go at a hotel room which another person.

What should i do?

i am going on holiday for about 10 weeks, untill the beginning of september, so i can forget about it until then, but when i get back, it's back to the life of misery & hatred.

Thank you

It seems different cultures have different attitudes!

It's not exactly like he's trying to hide it, is he? Your Mum probably knows something is up. The best thing I can suggest is what your sister said. Forget about it. Judging by his behaviour, he doesn't see it as wrong and won't stop even if your mum did leave him.