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everybody hurts sometimes

Dunno why but recently I've been down so much recently. I have been crying, depressed, and feeling sorry for myself. I don't have a paerticular reason why but I suppose the main thing that hurts everyone is love.
I got back from a party recently and was depressed after cos I have started to have feelings for a guy and I don't know him but can't help thinking about him (same old story really). I am leaving home soon and I won't ever see him again so don't really have a chance... Can you chear me up ... much appreciated. :frown:

Reply 1

I've had something similar to that... i know how you feel! :smile:
Just think about all the new lads you'll meet in ur new place! U can have loadsa new parties, n vow to talk to them! (trust me it works... worked 4 me :smile: )N how far away are you moving?

Reply 2

Just remember that you don't know him, he could well turn out to be an idiot. And think about all the new people you'll meet.

You'll forget about him soon enough, don't worry :smile:

Reply 3

Yup! i used to cry over this lad i really liked but who didn't talk 2 me very much... he turned out to be the biggest idiot the world has ever seen...
Personally i think he was trying to make up for something with his idiocy :P
Thats a point! Just think! he could be really small :smile::smile::smile:
Hope you fell better soon! xxxx

Reply 4

Knight-of-Ni
Yup! i used to cry over this lad i really liked but who didn't talk 2 me very much... he turned out to be the biggest idiot the world has ever seen...

Same here. :smile:

Reply 5

generalebriety
Same here. :smile:


:smile: i think its something everyone goes through... personally i think i came out of it a better person - defianetly with better taste in men! :biggrin:

Reply 6

Don't get upset over some guy you don't even know! He might be great but he's one of many and wherever you are going, you are bound to meet loads of wonderful people. Don't waste your summer moping!

Reply 7

Knight-of-Ni
:smile: i think its something everyone goes through... personally i think i came out of it a better person - defianetly with better taste in men! :biggrin:

Meh, I've only recently got out of it. Took me over two years to do though. He used to be a nice guy, I'm convinced he's changed though. He didn't really like being nice - nice guys finish last and all that, so he was a nice guy but completely unpopular. Then he gave in to peer pressure and turned into an idiot. And no one likes him still but they pretend they do because he gives them free stuff and invites them all around and so on. Not the converse, though. Wonder why.

Reply 8

Everyone feels down, but we just carry to get on. If it's about a guy, don't be upset at all. And you don't even know him, think about it, he might not even know you exist (sorry for sounding harsh), so it's not like staying here would help the situation anyway. There's more fish in the sea, just do things you like and forget about not being happy. Focus on enjoying life.