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too much too soon?

i have bn with my bf for a month and a half but we have already slept together and today he told me that he loved me. Do u think he's serious? I mean i love him too but loads of couples wait until they have been together for months and months before even sleepin together. It feels so right when we are together and i really do love him but i'm just worried that everything is happening so fast that we will soon get bored of each other :frown: please help me out!

Reply 1

Hang on, you feel even after a relatively short time that you really work together, you love him and he's told you he loves you - what's the problem exactly?

Reply 2

Every couple is different, the right time is when it feels right for you and you can't control your feelings until the the 'right' period of time has passed.
I know people who have slept with their bf's/gf's after mere weeks, whereas i myself waited 7 months with my current partner, as long as you are comfortable..what will be will be.

Reply 3

Some couples fall head over heels in love and others grow together over time. There not a wrong or right way of falling in love.

Reply 4

I don't get what we're supposed to be helping you with?

Sounds fine to me!

Sarah x

Reply 5

ok thanks!

Reply 6

Anonymous
i have bn with my bf for a month and a half but we have already slept together and today he told me that he loved me. Do u think he's serious? I mean i love him too but loads of couples wait until they have been together for months and months before even sleepin together. It feels so right when we are together and i really do love him but i'm just worried that everything is happening so fast that we will soon get bored of each other :frown: please help me out!


You're taking things a little too quick yeh, try to go easy.

Reply 7

Each to their own, as long as you're both happy :biggrin:

Reply 8

every relationship goes at a different speed, your just all clicked into place quickly. u must be right for each other.

Reply 9

GeneralOfTheSuperSubSquad
You're taking things a little too quick yeh, try to go easy.


LOL you try and stop a horny 17yr old from takin things slower