Help with this guy!

x.Utopian.Dream.x

Yeah well I told this guy I liked him a few weeks ago. He didn't tell me he liked me back though he just was like ''Aww thats sweet, why me?" We swapped numbers and said we'd get to know each other better. But he wasn't talking to me on msn and I backed off thinking he wasn't really interested.

In the end I got confused about him so I asked him straight out if he was interested in getting to know me and I told him I'd be fine with it if he wasn't. He said ''Yeah get to know each other and stuff, just been busy lately and haven't had time.'' I presumed that this was an excuse so I stopped talking to him.

A week or so after we spoke again and he asked me what I was up to and said ''Ahh nothing much, you?'' And he said ''Probs gonna go to the pub, wanna come?'' However, I was unable to go so I had to say no. :[

I wish I could have gone now and I think I've blown my chance because he's been pretty quiet again since. What do I do? Shall I casually mention to meet up sometime or let him arrange it again? And do you think he's interested because he wouldn't suggest to meet up knowing I had a crush on him would he? x

Reply 1

devilgirl999

no offence but by turning him down that meant it was your cue to make the next move, ring him and arrange something

Reply 2

generalebriety

He's clearly flattered and wants to get to know you and you think he doesn't. He asked you out and you declined so now he thinks you don't want to get to know him. Sort it out - meet up with him, whether he likes it or not! :smile:

Could even make it into a joke - "pff, __ weeks later and we still haven't managed to go out anywhere :p:

how about a drink later?".

Reply 3

insparato

If i was you id explain why you couldnt come and say you would like to meet up again. Possibly suggest somewhere and a day. Just to make sure you havent lost interest! If he hasnt said no then your still in the game! I'd just go with the flow see what happens! Have fun!

Reply 4

unfinished sympathy

well, to him it probably seems as though you're annoyed with him or are playing hard to get! If he can't be arsed with you, then don' be arsed with him! Don't talk to him again, let him come to you, you don't want him to think that you are desperate do you? He probably is interested, but he could be interested as a mate as well, would you be happy to be just friends? Don't ignore him, smile when you see him, or wave whatever! Let him come to you :smile:

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