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I heart my bestfriend

Has anyone been in love with their best friend and how did you get over it, or if its still happening now, how have you got through it ?
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Reply 1

unfinished sympathy

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no most of my best friends have been girls, and i'm not a lesbian, so no luck there for me :smile:

Reply 2

Glory

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im dating him :biggrin:

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

No man in my life at the moment boo hoo, go for this guy or gal or dog or whatever.

Reply 4

unfinished sympathy

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Glory

im dating him :biggrin:

ooo well good for you! :smile:

is it better going out with a really good friend cos you know him?

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

I'm in love with my best friend despite being in a relationship with another guy. (I'm a girl btw)
It's a relationship that I cannot get myself out of, it's really complicated.
*sigh*

Reply 6

Glory

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unfinished sympathy

ooo well good for you! :smile:

is it better going out with a really good friend cos you know him?

yeh, things just seem easier. You know their attitude and normal behavour without having a clouded view of love, its just better for those conversations when you dont actually say anything.

Reply 7

unfinished sympathy

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Glory

yeh, things just seem easier. You know their attitude and normal behavour without having a clouded view of love, its just better for those conversations when you dont actually say anything.

yeah that is nice, cos it means that you're so comfy around each other that you don't have to speak :smile:

aawww loverly!

Reply 8

Glory

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Although i have to say, the first few times i kissed him. It was like, im kissing my bestfriend here surely this is a bad idea. But i love him to bits now, im glad i stuck it out.

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

Yeh, well they ( wont say boy or girl ) know i think, but its very odd since we both have loads of other mates and everything, but we choose to spend so much time with eachother. We go giggin,shopping, weve even been on holiday with eachother a bit ago to Tunsia. They told me that they liked me once, but we were both really drunk...and didnt speak about it afterwards.
It might be too late tho now as like loads of other people were both off to Uni this coming September...and seperate ones at that

Reply 10

unfinished sympathy

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Glory

Although i have to say, the first few times i kissed him. It was like, im kissing my bestfriend here surely this is a bad idea. But i love him to bits now, im glad i stuck it out.

good for you :smile:

Reply 11

Anonymous #4

i think i was in love with my bestfriend (guy obvcourse im not lesbian) and i know he still is with me but i don't feel for him like that anymore its a bit complicated

Reply 12

poltroon

There is nought more annoying than when people say 'heart' in lieu of 'love'.

Reply 13

Shreerac1

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poltroon

There is nought more annoying than when people say 'heart' in lieu of 'love'.

Better than using '<3'.

Reply 14

quintsy

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If it's a same sex friend you're talking about, and you don't think you're gay; then it's quite possible that what you feel for her (I assume you're female?) could be the kind of love you experience for someone like a sister. If you've known each other for a really long time, you might start to think of them as almost family.

Therefore it might not be romantic love, but more just you really care for her. Don't worry too much about it, it just shows you've got a good friendship. :smile:

If it's a best friend of the opposite sex, it's quite common for it to happen. I made really good friends with a guy I know, and about a year later he told me he really liked me; and I felt the same for him. It's a risk if you decide to date, because it can change things; but it's worth it if it works out. :smile:

Good luck!

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