I need oppenions from guys (or girls if necessary)

I now fancy a guy that i work together with. We worked together since last summer but we hardly know each other at that time, i went out with a guy, who also worked together with us, for 3 months, before i called everything over. Anyway, i think i can feel that the guy i fancy now have some feeling for me too, but i'm not sure how he will think of me after i've went out with my ex, who no one would imagine me going out with.
Guys, what would you think of me if u were him? Do u think he would mind?

Reply 1

wojewodztwo_pl

well it totally depends on the person, and how comfortable he feels about the wholes situation. maybe, for now, just talk to him about if there are any girls in his life, and try to talk to him as much as possible. us men, generally find it harder to keep feelings bottled up, so if he likes you, he will probably tell you soon. just relax and make sure you be yourself..

Reply 2

zav

Give it a go. We don't know the guy so can't say but if you really like him it is worth going for it.

I don't see it being a problem if he likes you, maybe go out for a drink together and have a chat with him

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

thanks for the advices, the thing is that he's going to leave for Uni again after summer, but will come back again during the holidays. I think someting is going to happen this summer if i keep being approachable. We never speak to each other before because i was shy, and he was always in his group (all boys). his mates are not all back yet so he did chat with me when it's not busy, and he walked with me few days ago, and we stopped and chatted "in the dark"(cus there were no street light) for about 15 or 20 minutes bout subjects we did in school, bout the teachers, and his Uni stuffs. There r only 2 Unies in Scotland have the course that i'm going to do and he's in one of that Uni. I told him i'm going to the other Uni to do the course(not the one he's in) , and he was like "u should come to my Uni it's amazing!" , i thought he might be gutted lol. hmm, i'll c him tomorro at work so ...wish we could talk ...