IS it just assumed knowledge that all men and boys jerk off to p*rn these days? Do they all have such huge sexual appetites that being in a good relationship with a beautiful and affectionate woman isn't enough? Is it not good enough to be with and think about just one woman?
because honestly it makes me feel sick to think about my boyfriend watching p*rn. It hurts my feelings, i almost feel cheated on and i don't think it's at all necessary.
surely i'm no the only one who feels this way?
It seems most do yes. However it shouldn't be the norm to do so and there is a growing concern over porn addiction. I personally no longer watch it and can say from experience if your bf is in any way addicted (even the tiniest bit) it's not that he doesn't find you attractive etc. it's just his brain reward circulatory system being rewired, for more info see websites like yourbrainonporn etc. hope this helps!
It's just a man thing don't take it personally - most guys I know have still watched in when in relationships
Up your game and he will watch it less and less.
I don't think you should feel slighted by it - it doesn't harm anyone and it satisfies a natural craving. It's not a statement about how your boyfriend does or doesn't feel about you.
Having said that, to answer your question, not all guys watch porn. The vast majority do I think, but personally I gave it up.
No, not all men do, like me for example.
It hurts me SO much. I know everyone says it's not a reflection on the girlfriend, but if it was normal and natural, it would be normal and natural for me to accept it and it shouldn't bother me. before porn was so so common and so easily accessible, i'm sure guys didn't die of sexual starvation. it's just because it's there that he watches it, not because he needs to. i don't understand why so many people see it as 'normal' and acceptable.
Can't speak for myself but I can only assume it's a lot more common among young guys nowadays anyway due to growing up with the internet - I personally didn't see porn until I was 14/15 xD
glad im not dating you frankly.
My gf knows i watches porn but she watches it herself so its all good - should i feel like shes cheating on me cos shes watching it?
the fact that you feel almost cheated on is more an indication of your mental state than it is his
I could see why you'd feel like this. When I'm in a relationship I don't really watch porn, but mostly because I talk openly about sex and we both get what we want in the relationship.
I would say a determining factor would be whether you feel he has sex with you less as a result or if he watches porn because you don't have the sex together that he fantasises about. In both of these cases it's something you should talk with him about.
But to answer your original question, it would seem most guys watch porn, yeah.