Our conversations keep going dead...

On msn me and the guy I like sometimes talk. I often initiate it and so does he. However, after we've said 'hows you' and 'what you been up to' our conversations end. :[ I need to think of something to say to him that will keep us talking for hours!! This doesn't happen with all my other guy mates but I always seem to get a brain freeze when I talk to him and I worry about what I'm going to say. ! x

There's too much communication nowadays that it's quite obviously going to lead to a lack of worthwhile conversation. Tell him you've decided to become a lesbian, that should send a rocket up his arse

Or we could just skip over that post...

I get that with a girl on msn, she's a really nice person but i keep getting the feeling that she only talks to me so she doesnt offend me, i keep deleting her off my msn and blocking, but i always seem to re-add her.

Like tonight she logged on and as soon as i said hi, she said hi i cant talk now i need to be sociable with my relatives and stuff and set status to away.

she meant with people in her house, but why sign in to be sociable with people in her house, i get confused, so i am blocking until she emails me.

I find 'the question game' is good for keeping conversations going on MSN. Basically you ask the other person a random question, they answer and then ask you question. It's a good way to get to know them too. Just make sure you have some questions in mind first or there'll be a lot of awkward silences while you're trying to think of some.

Good grief. Do people actually find this so difficult?

I find it difficult to talk to people I'm friends with but wouldn't be too bothered if I wasn't friends with them.

Good grief. Do people actually find this so difficult?