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Why Do You Keep Staring At Me!

ARGHHHH this really annoys me... theres this lad in yr 13 and I'm in yr 12, he has been abit off with me recently whenever i look at him BUT whenever I don't take much notice and look as if I'm not bothered, he stares at me, also when i walked past him, he turned round quickly as if he really wants my attention... i don't get it... it's weird, I cannot understand him.. it's like he's giving mixed signals

Then at lunchtime, he was sitting with his friends and all of them looked over, they just kept staring... It was embarressing while i was eating... this lad kept turning around and looking at me again. I don't know whether he has an eye problem, an attitude problem or just simply likes looking over. AND even my friends noticed.

Also yeah I like him, but I don't want to act forward to him incase he's not interested and I'll make a fool of myself!:eek:

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Reply 1
Anonymous
ARGHHHH this really annoys me... theres this lad in yr 13 and I'm in yr 12, he has been abit off with me recently whenever i look at him BUT whenever I don't take much notice and look as if I'm not bothered, he stares at me, also when i walked past him, he turned round quickly as if he really wants my attention... i don't get it... it's weird, I cannot understand him.. it's like he's giving mixed signals

Then at lunchtime, he was sitting with his friends and all of them looked over, they just kept staring... It was embarressing while i was eating... this lad kept turning around and looking at me again. I don't know whether he has an eye problem, an attitude problem or just simply likes looking over. AND even my friends noticed.

Also yeah I like him, but I don't want to act forward to him incase he's not interested and I'll make a fool of myself!:eek:

So what do you lot think from this situation?
Reply 2
hes obv interested in you, guys only look at girls like that if they are really interested, simply ask him what he wants in a nice way an if he says some other excuse then you wont be embarrased as he wont know you like him. but guys only do look at girls like that when they see them attractively and are interested, but hes probaly too scared to make the 1st move(pussy)(joke) so is waitin for u as he feels hes got ur attention.
Reply 3
Either he is really interested in you, or youve not noticed the whole school is looking at something wrong with you

Try a gigantic spot on your forehead for example :biggrin:
Reply 4
You're probably gorgeous....or your boob was poking out!
Reply 5
''most def cos u iz fit. iz wat all da homies do to show a chick dey lyk dem. only way. de othr way is 2 say, iz u up for it. but he may be shy.''

---- edited from ''ghetto loving'' by i'm a G.

:rolleyes:
Reply 6
Maybe he's plotting your death
Reply 7
He probably likes you. Maybe you should go up to him and ask what he wants. Remember to remain polite :smile:.
Reply 8
Next time they all stare in a group flash your tits. That'll shut them up
Reply 9
Oh right, yeah all my friends thought that he's interested in me... but he makes me kinda awkward for me to approach him especially with all his friends around..:redface:

EDIT: Oh...I'm exposed...great..
Reply 10
Exit
Next time they all stare in a group flash your tits. That'll shut them up


hahahaa!! I'm not that kinda person... and even if I did.. which is never gonna happen; they would stare even more.:p:
Reply 11
Noxid
Either he is really interested in you, or youve not noticed the whole school is looking at something wrong with you

Try a gigantic spot on your forehead for example :biggrin:


That is a possible reason...:p: but he seems to look all the time.. maybe I have spots all the time...hmmmm
Reply 12
He definately likes you
Anonymous
ARGHHHH this really annoys me... theres this lad in yr 13 and I'm in yr 12, he has been abit off with me recently whenever i look at him BUT whenever I don't take much notice and look as if I'm not bothered, he stares at me, also when i walked past him, he turned round quickly as if he really wants my attention... i don't get it... it's weird, I cannot understand him.. it's like he's giving mixed signals

argh! stalker alert! he has been difintly giving you the evil eye
i suggest be weary
or organise a mass starathon if his mates stare at you you and your mates start staring back its the best thing
if he asks you why well i'll leave that to you
good luck with the staring problem.
Reply 14
I think he hearts you!
Reply 15
pbrown
He definately likes you


Oh right, well I can't really do much about it, since yesterday when he tried to get my attention was probably the last day I would see him.
I think he would be finishing his A levels this week and then leaving school straight away.:frown: I wish I've approached him, I couldn't tell whether he was staring at me or just looking for the sake of it. I should have trusted my girly instinct :p:.
Reply 16
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Anonymous
ARGHHHH this really annoys me... theres this lad in yr 13 and I'm in yr 12, he has been abit off with me recently whenever i look at him BUT whenever I don't take much notice and look as if I'm not bothered, he stares at me, also when i walked past him, he turned round quickly as if he really wants my attention... i don't get it... it's weird, I cannot understand him.. it's like he's giving mixed signals

argh! stalker alert! he has been difintly giving you the evil eye
i suggest be weary
or organise a mass starathon if his mates stare at you you and your mates start staring back its the best thing
if he asks you why well i'll leave that to you
good luck with the staring problem.


That would be hilarious!!!
Reply 17
Sezkin
Oh right, well I can't really do much about it, since yesterday when he tried to get my attention was probably the last day I would see him.
I think he would be finishing his A levels this week and then leaving school straight away.:frown: I wish I've approached him, I couldn't tell whether he was staring at me or just looking for the sake of it. I should have trusted my girly instinct :p:.

This probably sounds cliched but if he really likes you then he'll make the effort to see you on your own, though from this situation I can't see how. Unless he's normally a really shy person, like me:rolleyes: . Can you get any of his contact details somehow?
Reply 18
pbrown
This probably sounds cliched but if he really likes you then he'll make the effort to see you on your own, though from this situation I can't see how. Unless he's normally a really shy person, like me:rolleyes: . Can you get any of his contact details somehow?


Well he seems like a very shy person, I've looked at him a few time when there were girls walking past, but he doesn't pay much attention like he did with me. But I don't know, maybe he's not interested; thats why I'm confused.

I prefer getting the contact details from him rather than from other people as it would be kinda awkward if he didn't know I had it. if I see him sometimes, I'll just start talking to him somehow.
Reply 19
Sezkin
Well he seems like a very shy person, I've looked at him a few time when there were girls walking past, but he doesn't pay much attention like he did with me. But I don't know, maybe he's not interested; thats why I'm confused.

I prefer getting the contact details from him rather than from other people as it would be kinda awkward if he didn't know I had it. if I see him sometimes, I'll just start talking to him somehow.


I can see why you're confused (I always am in these situations) but from an outsider's point of view, I can't see why you should be doubtful about him liking you. When you next see him, go get him! (good luck)