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girls asking guys out

im curious to know whether u think its ok for girls to ask guys out rather than the more conventional guys asking girls

personally, i wouldnt ask a guy out, but a couple of my frends say they would and i want to see if this opinion is common

Reply 1

shinyhappy

14

Yeah. I would.
(Provided I didn't chicken out!)
Don't really see why girls shouldn't ask lads out. Obviously some wouldn't want to, they'd be too shy. At the same time though, some lads would be too shy to ask girls out.

Reply 2

Sezkin

11

Yeah I would but it rarely happens,I would want to know whether the lad likes me in the same way...plus it would be very awkward if he didn't.

:suith:

Sezkin

Reply 3

aurion

i think its ok either. if you always waited for guys to take notice and realised that you liked them then you would probably be waiting for ages anyway

Reply 4

1013

1

There's nothing wrong with it but I probably wouldn't. If I like a guy, I'll make sure he knows it and then, if he's interested, he'll ask me out.

Reply 5

TomX

14

If you look like your picture in your profile you shouldn't be afraid of being rejected... so I guess it's best to approach men sparsely.

Reply 6

username54863

11

I really wish that happened, stupid social conventions...

Reply 7

Nuheen

12

It is the picture of Aishariya Rai, Miss World or something like that :p:

Reply 8

1013

1

If you look like your picture in your profile you shouldn't be afraid of being rejected...

That's Aishwayria Rai (or however you spell it) - widely considered to be the most beautiful woman in the world!

Reply 9

Singh_87

15

Lol, wow...imagine if it was Aishwariya asking advice on the TSR forums!! :p:

But to the thread strarter, Im sure you're just as pretty! :biggrin:

Lol, neways, if you do like a guy, and he isnt getting the hint, then you should just straight up ask him...there isnt anything wrong with asking guys out! We don't bite or anything... :p:

Reply 10

zav

14

I think as i guy i would be pleased. It is hard for anyone to ask somebody out and i think it would be nice for more girls to see what it is like and how its very hard to do.

Reply 11

Nutter

16

Nuheen

It is the picture of Aishariya Rai, Miss World or something like that :p:

Aishwarya Rai :wink:

(And yes, she's a beauty.)

Reply 12

silverbolt

19

Sezkin

Yeah I would but it rarely happens,I would want to know whether the lad likes me in the same way...plus it would be very awkward if he didn't.

:suith:

Sezkin

its the same for guys we have to pluck up the courage to ask you ladies out neer knowing if you like us the same way.

and i see no problem with girls asking guys out.

To the OP why wouldnt you ask a guy out.

Reply 13

high priestess fnord

9

i have and would. only one guy has asked me out succesfully the rest have been pounced on by me :smile:

Reply 14

zav

14

high priestess fnord

i have and would. only one guy has asked me out succesfully the rest have been pounced on by me :smile:

Im pleased you have asked out some guys and hold a lot of respect as it annoys me the way some girls just couldn't do it as its rather selfish imo.

Reply 15

high priestess fnord

9

zav

Im pleased you have asked out some guys and hold a lot of respect as it annoys me the way some girls just couldn't do it as its rather selfish imo.

i agree. i know guys are ment to be biologicaly better at taking risks but its not fair that they should allways have to do it.

and sooo slow waiting for you guys to just get the message!! most guys just cant take a hint. yeh im just impatient :smile:

Reply 16

Dee27

I wouldn't ask a guy out just because I'm too shy & wouldn't know what to do/what to say & aaagghh, it'd stress me out & I just wouldn't be able to do it...I do feel bad and think it's a good thing to do though if you have the confidence!

Reply 17

gillian19

ive asked a guy out before although i had spoken to friends about it before and they told me that he realli liked me. if i was unsure of his answer then i probably wouldnt have asked. if i had been waiting on him to ask i would still have been waiting. i knew he liked me, but he is shy and i knew he would never have made the first move.

Reply 18

zav

14

Dee27

I wouldn't ask a guy out just because I'm too shy & wouldn't know what to do/what to say & aaagghh, it'd stress me out & I just wouldn't be able to do it...I do feel bad and think it's a good thing to do though if you have the confidence!

Thats cool im not saying that all girls should have to just that it should be even you get shy girls and guys

Reply 19

Thud

17

I probably would if I wasn't really very scared that he'd say no.

women want equality in society with men, this should apply to all situations.

girls asking guys out

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