I Don't want it to end

ok me and this girl are kinda really close and i mean we were chatting the other day and there was flirting etc and it all jsut felt so right - i am totally in lvoe with her and the only problem is when i go off to uni we are going to different places and i hate everything about it - i dont want to do the course but most of all i dont want to lose her - she is perfect in every way and she will have loads of guys after her at uni and even if we were to meet again she would be involved with someone else - i dont have courage to ask her out but we almost kissed the other day - i cant take much more of this - i have been in love with this girl for years and i just want her so badly - i cry about it all the time and i dont know how i can keep in touch with her or what to do - abit of a ramble but i had to get it off my chest

Reply 1

Vampyrcorn

you should tell her how you feel if it's upsetting you so much! And just because you're going to university doesn't mean that you can't keep in touch! Tell her what you told us (except maybe without the bit about crying), and then see what happens.

You may be able to change courses when you start at the university, try and be positive about it.

Reply 2

Shreerac1

Definatly ask her out.

Reply 3

zav

Tell her dude!

Otherwise you get into the what might of happened mind set. If she says no then atleast you can try and move on and if she says she likes you then go for it.

The worst thing you can do is not explain, get it off your chest you will feel a lot better

Reply 4

planes12

Dont do the course if you dont want to do it, that is the worst thing you can do. I never went to uni and i am still able to fulfill my dream of being a pilot, it's just a different route but both routes are just as desirable.
the only difference of going to uni is to meet people, but it seems you have met someone.

Reply 5

SkinnyJeans

explosionsinthesky

Tell her what you told us (except maybe without the bit about crying)

You should make some kind of move. You have like 3 months till you go to uni, you could be having a great 3 months with her rather than spending it depressed. And if she's not up for it, then you can move on.

Reply 6

1013

Do ask her out but don't have massive hopes for the relationship as long distance is hard even when you have been togehter for ages. The best thing to do is to keep in contact with her so you don't lose touch during uni. If you are both made for eachother then you will hook up eventually even if it is after uni!

Reply 7

Kernel

As someone in exactly the same situation (except I can't wait for my course, and I don't cry over her), I'd say definitely ask her out. Its certainly better than my plan, which is either to not tell her and to spend the rest of my life regretting it, or to get shifaced at our leavers ball/prom and blurt out my feelings for her in a drunken ramble (no way I could tell her sober).

I wish us both the best of luck!

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