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How to move on
I've been madly in love with someone for about 4/5 years. Now we're not together but I still like this person a lot and I need some advice on how I can get over them. Any ideas...
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Stick a picture of the said person on a dart board.
Throw darts at the picture.
Throw darts at the picture.
explosionsinthesky
Stick a picture of the said person on a dart board.
Throw darts at the picture.
Throw darts at the picture.
Thanks... That was really very helpful
sorry.
I dunno really.. it'll just take time I guess. Try and keep busy to take your mind off it, that may help.
I dunno really.. it'll just take time I guess. Try and keep busy to take your mind off it, that may help.
mandymoo
i dont get it...wher u 2gether 4 4/5 years??
We were together for 4 to 5 years but we split up a few weeks ago. And I still really like him but there's no chance of us getting back together, which is why I need some ideas on how to forget about him
The thing is, we're both only 16 and neither of us have been with anyone else and the relationship was obviously a big part of our lives. We both decided, however to split up because the relationship had gone 'stale' and we weren't going anywhere anymore. Even though I accepted this, I can't stop thinking about him now and I know it'll take time, but I was just wondering if there's anything I can do right now, to forget about him for a bit because I really am quite miserable without him
Yes. Do stuff to take your mind off it. Watch movies, play tennis, get drunk, do drugs. It's summer. The possibilities are endless.
I was in the same type of situation as you not so long ago. Two weeks ago, infact. Not the length of time, like yours though.
I still have feelings for them, and allegedly she still had for me too – which kind of makes me wonder why she’s going with someone much older now.
Anyway, I find the best thing you can do is take it slowly. You’ll not get over it in one night don’t try and tell yourself you will. The most important thing is not to beat yourself up about it and don’t blame yourself. It’s not your fault that what my problem was - I blamed myself. I think the worst time for me was at night or when I was alone. She would be all I would think about. So just be around a lot of your friends whenever possible. At night, my best friend – bless her – would just randomly text me to take my mind off it because I had told her how I was feeling, you could find someone to do that for you?
All I can say is that I really feel for you. But, you can get over it; you will. For now, just take it a day at a time, appreciate the time with your friends and cheer up, and chin up you’ll find someone else! Promise!
-Phil.
I still have feelings for them, and allegedly she still had for me too – which kind of makes me wonder why she’s going with someone much older now.
Anyway, I find the best thing you can do is take it slowly. You’ll not get over it in one night don’t try and tell yourself you will. The most important thing is not to beat yourself up about it and don’t blame yourself. It’s not your fault that what my problem was - I blamed myself. I think the worst time for me was at night or when I was alone. She would be all I would think about. So just be around a lot of your friends whenever possible. At night, my best friend – bless her – would just randomly text me to take my mind off it because I had told her how I was feeling, you could find someone to do that for you?
All I can say is that I really feel for you. But, you can get over it; you will. For now, just take it a day at a time, appreciate the time with your friends and cheer up, and chin up you’ll find someone else! Promise!
-Phil.
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We were together for 4 to 5 years but we split up a few weeks ago. And I still really like him but there's no chance of us getting back together, which is why I need some ideas on how to forget about him
just make some simple changes and do stuff you enjoy more, treat yourself, go out buy some new clothes, get a new hairstyle, take up a new hobby, go and meet new people make new friends, just go out and discover what more there is..
hm..I would suggest thinking of his bad points, surely he must have some? might make him less appealing..
Try to stop thinking about him?
Or try this:
Make a mental image of him in your mind, make it gradually smaller and less bright and finally move the much smaller image into an imaginary sun. Say 'Gone' while you do this.
Make a mental image of him in your mind, make it gradually smaller and less bright and finally move the much smaller image into an imaginary sun. Say 'Gone' while you do this.
yeah but she can't surely think he had absolutley no flaws? he must have done something to annoy her maybe once or twice...if things went stale things obviously weren't happening and there must have been a reason for that..
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