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    As above. Ours wasn't because of any thing either of us did wrong, but because of circumstance and something that happened

    And it's like when she texts certain things, it triggers me...

    I mean I could be really happy one moment, and then she could say some few words, and I'd be in tears (Im talking a recent breakup)

    Any scientific responses? I googled it, but no science based stuff
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    Outpouring of emotion due to you having effectively lost someone you had a very strong bond to I'm guessing?
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    (Original post by DivinityA)
    Outpouring of emotion due to you having effectively lost someone you had a very strong bond too I'm guessing?
    Well, she still is a friend, so in that sense I haven't "lost" her. I guess I've "lost" a gf...
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    As above. Ours wasn't because of any thing either of us did wrong, but because of circumstance and something that happened

    And it's like when she texts certain things, it triggers me...

    I mean I could be really happy one moment, and then she could say some few words, and I'd be in tears (Im talking a recent breakup)

    Any scientific responses? I googled it, but no science based stuff
    I take it you're a guy...
    Didnt know that guys cried as well :/
    Sorry I don't know the answer to your question... I thought that only happened to women tbh.

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    (Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95)
    I take it you're a guy...
    Didnt know that guys cried as well :/
    Sorry I don't know the answer to your question... I thought that only happened to women tbh.

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    Yes Im a guy, and yes guys cry as well!
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    (Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95)
    I take it you're a guy...
    Didnt know that guys cried as well :/
    Sorry I don't know the answer to your question... I thought that only happened to women tbh.

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    Ofcourse men don't cry because they are not human! Did you not receive the memo? :rolleyes:

    OP it is because you havn't perhaps totally moved on from her.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well, she still is a friend, so in that sense I haven't "lost" her. I guess I've "lost" a gf...
    Yeah that's why I said effectively! You have lost a strong bond with her all the same, so I guess it hurts when you see something she says cause you can remember a time when you were closer.

    Dunno about any scientific answers though \o/
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    I'm shocked. Guys... cry? With tears and snot?
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    What sort of circumstances are you talking about?
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    (Original post by yashradia)
    What sort of circumstances are you talking about?
    Cultural. I'll leave it at that, unless you see my other thread
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    Yes Im a guy, and yes guys cry as well!
    Hmm well I got used.. Doubt he cries.
    Anyway I know the feeling.. I know lots of people will probs say this but erm if you need to talk or rant or anything just PM me, its no bother at all.. I could use the distraction
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    because your emotionally weak..........
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    (Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95)
    Hmm well I got used.. Doubt he cries.
    Anyway I know the feeling.. I know lots of people will probs say this but erm if you need to talk or rant or anything just PM me, its no bother at all.. I could use the distraction
    I think you'd be surprised. I've already been PM'ing you (about random stuff)
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    Cultural. I'll leave it at that, unless you see my other thread
    I have and you can pm me
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    (Original post by Chukkeigh)
    Ofcourse men don't cry because they are not human! Did you not receive the memo? :rolleyes:

    OP it is because you havn't perhaps totally moved on from her.
    Lol ha ha..
    I dunno I genuinely thought they could turn their emotions off or control them or something like that.. Obviously not.
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    I'm shocked. Guys... cry? With tears and snot?
    Yes, just behind closed doors

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    I think you'd be surprised. I've already been PM'ing you (about random stuff)
    Okay.. Now I'm genuinely confused.. Lol umm I don't want to say a name cause youre anonymous..
    Pm me again?
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    Yes, just behind closed doors

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    That's it. Not in public.... Just when Im by myself. I'll let it out then
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    (Original post by Ayesha.Tabassam95)
    Okay.. Now I'm genuinely confused.. Lol umm I don't want to say a name cause youre anonymous..
    Pm me again?
    Right OK
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