So I am totally shy and have low confidence; I heard confidence is anattractive feauture. I hate being in big groups, I get real nervous around a hot guy. I don't where slutty clothes when I go out "that scream I'm begging for attention." My question is how can I overcome this and have a guys attention and hopefully a boyfriend?
You don't need to wear 'slutty clothes' to attract guys. But confidence is a big thing. You don't necessarily need to have it, plenty of shy people are in relationships. But obviously if nobody knows you're there, you aren't giving anyone chance to like you romantically. Start trying to feel more comfortable in groups (not necessarily big ones) and converse with people more, give your opinions, talk to people. If necessary then say you get nervous in front of people, chances are they won't even care or might even think it's sweet! Just don't stress about it and (I know it sounds corny) be yourself, and someone will come along eventually. Relationships aren't the be all and end all, you don't need one to be happy x
Just be more out-going to guys that seem to be in your kind of boat: Low confidence and shy. Get to know them, and see if you can advance something from there... I can tell you right now, Many people, like myself, find slutty clothing and too-outgoing females very off-putting... Then again, I'm seeking a long-term relationship, not a quick sexual fix.