OK so this is pretty long but I have never felt like this before:
I've always thought that if a guy didn't fit in with my "particular/ideal" kind of guy then I wasn't really interested in them. But recently I had to work with a guy for like 4 days who didn't fit my type but I felt was so perfect for me if that makes sense. The first 2 days I was kind of sad and confused about being around him because it seemed like he disapproved of me and hated me without really getting to know me but as the days went on, it seemed that he at least liked having me around. Yeah he had some bad points but I accepted that and felt that when he was happy I felt happy. On the last day of work, he didn't really say anything to me except bye and I felt like I had just been brushed aside?! I went home feeling so sad and wanting to cry my eyes out i tried to get back to studying and forget about him but I couldn't- i would literally think about him everyday Today I had to go back and see him and I was so nervous beforehand wondering if I was wearing the right clothes, if my hair was ok etc, but I don't think he even noticed This didn't stop me from feeling happy the rest of the day just because he talked to me for a couple of minutes but now I feel sad about whether I will see him again. I sound like a complete numpty but I don't understand what I'm feeling- is it a crush, infatuation etc? I know it will probably never happen but I wish he would have given me one chance but I know he'll probably find a girl who is so much better than me and that sucks . Can anyone explain to me what I'm feeling and how to get over it?
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- Thread Starter
- 11-10-2013 00:08
- 26-10-2013 11:26
crushes are mild infatuations- you've got one, dear
- 26-10-2013 11:29
I'm sure you will get over him. There are lots of other fishes in the sea!