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    I don't really know where to place this topic in the forum, post it here because of the privacy setting and some what about relationships.

    Anyway as the title suggests, I am about to become a male escort. The reason doing this is to help fund my way through university. Now I have a good sex life, without boasting I have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week.

    I know how to treat a woman, getting them into bed with me is pretty easy as majority of men act like plonkers towards women so they flock to me.

    The thing I am most worried about is my reputation, do you think its sleazy of me to have sex for money? I really hate to have some boring ****ty bar job. also if the university finds out do you think they would kick me out or be okay with it?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't really know where to place this topic in the forum, post it here because of the privacy setting and some what about relationships.

    Anyway as the title suggests, I am about to become a male escort. The reason doing this is to help fund my way through university. Now I have a good sex life, without boasting I have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week.

    I know how to treat a woman, getting them into bed with me is pretty easy as majority of men act like plonkers towards women so they flock to me.

    The thing I am most worried about is my reputation, do you think its sleazy of me to have sex for money? I really hate to have some boring ****ty bar job. also if the university finds out do you think they would kick me out or be okay with it?
    I can't see your uni having a problem with it, unless your at oxbridge.

    Your reputation is what people who know you think, which only matters if they know. Personally, even if I had the looks (and I don't) for it, I wouldn't do it, but I know people who do, and they treat it as a job, nothing else.

    Based on that, I wouldn't judge anyone on their job choice, but I would urge you to consider this...Most male escorts will be expected to have male clients. Women may flock to you as a ONS/fling or even relationship material, but getting them to pay for you is a whole different ball game.

    If I knew you, and you were my friend, these would be the issues I would raise, and want you to consider before taking up that line of work.
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    You sound very delusional. This is not going to work.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    I know how to treat a woman, getting them into bed with me is pretty easy as majority of men act like plonkers towards women so they flock to me.

    The thing I am most worried about is my reputation, do you think its sleazy of me to have sex for money? I really hate to have some boring ****ty bar job. also if the university finds out do you think they would kick me out or be okay with it?
    No, your university won't care.

    People will probably think you are sleazy. Judging by your post, you sound delusional anyway, so it won't be a problem.

    But hey...I am just one of those guys that prefers the boring ****ty bar job to an STD.
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    Only thing Im gonna say is try and explain that to a future gf/wife
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    How desperate for money are you?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't really know where to place this topic in the forum, post it here because of the privacy setting and some what about relationships.

    Anyway as the title suggests, I am about to become a male escort. The reason doing this is to help fund my way through university. Now I have a good sex life, without boasting I have sex at least 3 to 4 times a week.

    I know how to treat a woman, getting them into bed with me is pretty easy as majority of men act like plonkers towards women so they flock to me.

    The thing I am most worried about is my reputation, do you think its sleazy of me to have sex for money? I really hate to have some boring ****ty bar job. also if the university finds out do you think they would kick me out or be okay with it?

    With 4 different women? If that were true every year that would be 800 women and by then end of your 3 years at University you would have slept with every female student.

    Or do you mean you sleep with female escorts? Or are you on some sort of adult friends website? Or do you just mean you have a girlfriend?

    Are you not very choosy? (This is a good if thing too if you want to be a male escort). Because most of your clients will be middle aged obese women.
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    (Original post by noobynoo)
    Are you not very choosy? (This is a good if thing too if you want to be a male escort). Because most of your clients will be middle aged obese women.
    More likely middle aged obese men.
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    I would much rather pull a pint for an old woman than pull an old woman.

    You are going to see a lot of things that cannot be unseen.
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    (Original post by de_monies)
    Only thing Im gonna say is try and explain that to a future gf/wife
    Haha, makes him more experienced i guess

    Also OP don't you think that most of the male escorts are targeted at gay men? I don't know if you're interested in that but its one to watch out for if you don't swing that way.
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    To be honest there's more chance of girls paying to not have sex with you rather than the other way round, unless you're really good looking.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    do you think its sleazy of me to have sex for money?
    No, not if you're doing it properly and professionally.

    There will be people questioning whether or not there is a market for male escorts, and there is. You'll most probably be attracting "in the closet" gays and older women. You most probably won't be sexually attracted to them and that'll make the job easier. Some of them will make you feel a little bit sleazy and if this is prior to a "meeting"/"session" then you can easily say you don't want to/can't see them. Not all clients are like this, but some do get off on it and some can't help but come across like that.

    if the university finds out do you think they would kick me out or be okay with it?
    Why would they find out?
    Make sure they don't find out and you'll be fine.

    If you're afraid of your uni finding out then cut your head out of your pictures on your ad. Btw, I'm assuming you'll have an ad/site on which you'll put pictures on. If a potential client asks to see your face then don't send a picture to them until you see their face. You'll save a lot of unnecessary hassle in case that person is someone you know.

    Also, to take that extra precautionary step in case you haven't already then get a spare "work" phone for this job. Don't use your normal phone and as tempting as it might be, don't get a contract for this phone/job. Use pay as you go sims because if you're in this long enough or if you make a rookie mistake then you will have people hassling you so you need a number which you can easily chuck in the bin.


    If you want some info/advice/guidance then feel free to PM me.
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    (Original post by Vixen47)

    If you want some info/advice/guidance then feel free to PM me.
    Well there you go. Someone want's to pimp you out already.
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    But it's not women you'll be sleeping with
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    (Original post by noobynoo)
    Well there you go. Someone want's to pimp you out already.
    Well that's my cover blown. I can't decide whether I should leave you in peace or come at you with my fellow pimps and hoes.
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    (Original post by Vixen47)
    If you want some info/advice/guidance then feel free to PM me.
    Can I get some info/advice/guidance even though I'm not the OP?
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    (Original post by Bassetts)
    Can I get some info/advice/guidance even though I'm not the OP?
    Of course, of course, run into my arms as they're wide open.
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    I dont really have much else to contribute to what has already been said other than shake my head at the degradation of student life and say "Oh dear....."

    Yes, OP, it is very sleazy.
    Yes most people who use male escorts are gay men
    Yes you will have problems with relationships down the line.

    Also, i should say - If you really knew how to "treat a woman" you would know that getting them into bed isnt the be all end all, especially expecting them to pay for you!

    I'd advise stop thinking youre Gods gift and go and get a shop or bar job if you need to fund your studies.
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    Enjoy your gay 4 pay goals of 2013 and beyond OP
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    (Original post by Ham22)
    You really think there's a market for this?
    yes but;

    1. gay guys
    2. old women

    so yaa, not ideal
 
 
 
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