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    Ok so there has been this girl that i've been talking to and kinda hanging with for the past few weeks, all the early indicators are there that she maybe interested (basically first time after spending a fiar bit of the day together, she let me give her a back massage)

    Thing is i'm normally fine with asking girls out i've done it in the past (however i've been rejected each time) but there is something about this girl that makes me scared to actually ask her out, i'm not sure whether this is regular nerves or wheter it's something more, i'm not sure what to make of it

    By "kinda hang-outs" i mean that we've watched movies together in a relaxed sense;

    First i was round hers watching Back to The Furture as i had never seen it before (yes i know) then we went to mine to watch Iron Man 3 (same day) again the same day but later that night i gave her a 45 minute back massage (which she apprently enjoyed, she was red faced at the end), a few days ago i was round hers again to watch Peter Pan (she has a BIG thing for peter pan, she was going to invite me roun earlier but i had a non-cancelable meeting i had to go to, so i went round hers after)
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    Don't bother, you're just going to get rejected anyway.
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    Back massage? 45mins? Unless you're comfortable with someone, you wouldn't let that happen maybe hint at your feelings and ask how they feel about you. If they only like you as a friend, a strong friendship would pass an awkward 'shall we take this further' incident!

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    (Original post by Wasabi Cat)
    Back massage? 45mins? Unless you're comfortable with someone, you wouldn't let that happen maybe hint at your feelings and ask how they feel about you. If they only like you as a friend, a strong friendship would pass an awkward 'shall we take this further' incident!

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    wht do you mean by what i've highlighted in bold?
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    wht do you mean by what i've highlighted in bold?
    If it turns out they don't want to be romantically involved, it sounds like the strong friendship would last that

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    (Original post by Wasabi Cat)
    If it turns out they don't want to be romantically involved, it sounds like the strong friendship would last that

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    Ahh right that explains it
 
 
 
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