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Crying after pulling

Hiya,
I know this sounds wierd. But lately I have been going out clubbing,and sometimes I pull guys. Not doing anything more than just kissing and dancing. But for some reason when I get home, I always cry about it. I feel like crap :frown:

I should be all pleased that Im pulling but Im not. It makes me feel even more lonely

Reply 1

royal888

thats because you are pulling any random guy, you need to pull someone of high calibre or someone you like.

Reply 2

Né Stig

You need companionship, not someone who is so random as to do something that you inherently obviously dislike.

Reply 3

randum_nandom

i agree if you pull someone who you like then your on top of the moon lol
cause you will have someone by your side who means something to you :-)

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

i agree if you pull someone who you like then your on top of the moon lol
cause you will have someone by your side who means something to you :-)

Reply 5

Anonymous #2

ok then, why the hell would you be upset about pulling? you pull, have a laugh. a bf is overated

Reply 6

bedbug

Maybe you shouldn't pull then. Don't do it for the sake of it as it's clearly not what you want. Wait til you find someone special if that's what you need. Some people can go out, pull loads of people and not care. Some need to wait for someone special.

Reply 7

Austin226

wow annon 2 sounds like she has an axe to grind :eviltongu

Reply 8

generalebriety

Anonymous

ok then, why the hell would you be upset about pulling? you pull, have a laugh. a bf is overated

Generally, not true; individual boyfriends, maybe.

Reply 9

generalebriety

britgal'04

I should be all pleased that Im pulling but Im not. It makes me feel even more lonely

The clue is in the title. You're lonely. You don't want a random pull, you want a boyfriend. You don't cry when you're there because it's good and you're with someone, then you get home and realise you'll never see them again, and you feel lonely... it's natural. Get a boyfriend. It depends what sort of "clubs" you go to - I'm guessing it's the type where everyone gets pissed and pulls everyone else. That's fine for people who want that. There are other, less in-your-face clubs, for people who actually want boy/girlfriends. But even so, most clubs and the people in them are seedy, and I'd never go to them to meet someone. You probably get the odd innocent person in there, like you, but most are there just for the random kissing and dancing.