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Help Me Please!!!

:frown: I have been with my boyfrined for about 6 months seriously now and we both love each other very much.
long story short anyway... when we first got together i didnt feel ready for sex and bless him he waited until i said i was but it didnt go to well.
That was about 3 months ago and no matter how many times we try we just cant do it!
i am a virgin, and i am perfectly relaxed and turned on when we try but he just get it in! Its so painful and im just not big enough it even hurts when he puts fingers up there!! what can i do????????
Reply 1
you need to break that (god i have 4gotten wot it is called) but once that is broken it is so much easier. i know its painful but it needs to be broken sumhow just get him to go really slow and gentle. it can also be broken if u use tampons, go cycling or horse riding a lot but i did those and it still didn't break so just go thru the pain and it will be worth it (sorry if it's bad advice)
Reply 2
apricot
you need to break that (god i have 4gotten wot it is called) but once that is broken it is so much easier. i know its painful but it needs to be broken sumhow just get him to go really slow and gentle. it can also be broken if u use tampons, go cycling or horse riding a lot but i did those and it still didn't break so just go thru the pain and it will be worth it (sorry if it's bad advice)


It's called your hymen.
Reply 3
Anyone else??
Im so embarassed when im with him and we try, i really want to get past this!!
I just dont know what else to do!!!:frown: