What's his intention?

At a party a few weeks ago I met a boy I've known from childhood... we didn't really know eachother during childhood and we didn't speak much at the party as I was just leaving but he got my email address after that and we've talked since then.
Now I know he has a girlfriend, but he keeps hinting things like 'oh yea I'll give you a lift sometime' or 'you could come round and watch some dvds'. I thought he was just being friendly, but obviously would you be that friendly to a girl you hardly know when you have a girlfriend? At the time he also mentioned him and his girlfriend were 'on the rocks'.
Now he's said he's going to be 'in town' and asked if I wanted to go to the cinema and eat. Isn't that sort of... a date? I told my mum and she was all 'Oooh' and my friend reckons he's broken up with his girlfriend, otherwise why would he do it?
Anyone got any possible explanations?

Reply 1

TrentEnd

why not go on the 'date' and find out?

Reply 2

Austin226

he wants you to have his babies, no doubt about it

Reply 3

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Austin226

he wants you to have his babies, no doubt about it

Don't worry, I'll be on full alert for him wanting my babies...

I've agreed to go already. Should I slyly try and bring it into the conversation (by that I mean bluntly asking how his girlfriend is maybe... lol)?

Reply 4

Austin226

u could do, but that may put him on edge, im conffuzled do u fancy him or not?

Reply 5

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Austin226

u could do, but that may put him on edge, im conffuzled do u fancy him or not?

See I'm not really sure myself. He seems nice and he's friendly and cool etc... but (without sounding amazingly shallow or superficial) I don't really fancy him physically alot... if you saw him in a group of guys, he's like the reliable one who you always have a good thing to say about and who can help you outta a sticky situation. Maybe I shouldn't worry about things which haven't even amounted to anything yet lol :p:

Reply 6

Austin226

i think your right, dont jump to conclusions he may genuinly be trying to make up the fact that he didnt make mutch of an effot when u were both younger, or he may have an alterior motive which is he wants to bang ur brains out :hump:

Reply 7

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Austin226

If he tries anything of that sort I'll biff him.
Thanks for advice!

Reply 8

Shreerac1

Say "if I come round to watch some DVDs, is your girlfriend going to be there?"

Reply 9

Emmalina

Uh why dont you just meet up with him and if he trys anything on just be like "uh what?! your GIRLFRIEND"

He might just want a friendship..

Reply 10

Spikerocker

to get into your panties...?

Reply 11

Austin226

alot of men only want one thing, you cant blame a guy, its written in his genes, its outside of his control

Reply 12

dementedbunny

firstly, the things he's proposing to do with you don't sound very romantic at all. i go to movies and have dinner with my guy friends who have girlfriends all the time. nothing's happened and they have no vested interest.

and yes, one would be friendly with a girl he's just met even if he has a girlfriend. it's entirely possible. my ex boyfriend was getting pretty friendly with girls that he didn't know that well whilst he was still going out with me. turns out he wasn't interested in any of them.